What's NICER in the long run when dealing with a guy you aren't interested in?

i have a lot of guys that like me and it kinda offends me because a lot of them are just so unattractive yet they reek with so much confidence and I'm the kind of person where I don't like to be mean to people and I'm also very friendly. those guys mistake my friendliness for flirting and end up... Show More

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  • well the nicest thing that you can do is just to tell them straight up. we guys tend not to get small hints.

    don't worry about sounding bitchy, just tell them that you're not interested in them.

    • I have to agree. Most guys don't mind hearing "No, sorry." as long as it's not "Eww! WTF is your problem!?".