What's NICER in the long run when dealing with a guy you aren't interested in?
i have a lot of guys that like me and it kinda offends me because a lot of them are just so unattractive yet they reek with so much confidence and I'm the kind of person where I don't like to be mean to people and I'm also very friendly. those guys mistake my friendliness for flirting and end up asking me out later, saying I was giving them so many "signs" and they thought they'd just take a chance and tell me how they feel since I seem to feel the same way. should I just continue to be friendly but not blame myself if the guy ends up believing that my friendliness is flirting or would it be better to just show no emotion or friendliness in my words when they talk to me so they can get the hint right away and not get turned down later?
ALSO...how can I NICELY let a guy get the hint that I don't like him like that. I don't want to be a bitch, I just want these guys to get the point
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Don't be friendly to guys who are ugly.guys mistake friendliness with interest so just don't be extra friendly to a guy if he's ugly, then he won't think he has a chance. Its not your fault they make those incorrect assumptions, but just to save yourself the annoyance, tone down the friendliness.
With guys like that, just be straight up and tell them you don't like them.don't worry about hurting their feelings, guys aren't very sensitive so what you think might hurt a guys feelings probably wouldn't even affect him.you have to remember guys only talk to girls they think are hot and want to F***.if he didn't think you were hot he wouldn't be being nice to you either so just be honest with him.if he still tries to give you some lame line, say something like no after I got to know you I still wouldn't be interested and end the conversation