Is he pranking or flirting?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes...RArely, a guy would flirt? But I become paranoid, defensive and maybe even make both of us feel really awkward.

I know I'm quite unattractive,and maybe on the ugly side.

So when a random guy takes an interest in me, it can't be because of my personality because he doesn't know me. IT can't be because he likes me because of my LOOKS.

Really...would a guy sometimes take a piss out of an ugly, not confident girl? (like a prank?)

One time a guy was with several of his friends. I met them in front of a shop. One guy (never spoke to him but saw him several times) said hi and kissed me on my hand.

I just froze and got confused. Should I feel flattered or hurt? my face is 3/10. I'm clumsy my friends call it cute and I'm afraid that's my only appeal.

[Anonymous]

I think your low self-esteem has made you neurotic.

I've approached women that I thought were attractive and they weren't the standard beauty queen. They had something that I thought made them sexy such as their bodies, personality, or a specific feature. Unfortunately, they acted the same way. It was a shame because I really would've made love to them as if they were a "beauty queen".

Looks gets you the attention but personality keeps the man around. Accept complements graciously and learn to be seductive with men. Adapt quickly or you'll be a lonely old women before too long.

[Racez]

You're insecure, don't know what for. You're turning heads when walk through the do-o-or.

You don't know you're beautiful.

If by any chance that you have a very low self-esteem, I say you must keep a high spirit.

Guys won't usually, I mean generally speaking, flirt with just any girl even though they are hot.

They see something that's very beautiful within a woman behind the pretty/ugly face that she possess.

Keep a high spirit. Act like you're a beautiful lady, because I know you are, and improve how you carry yourself. We, guys, love that.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

How do you "know" you're ugly?