Does my coworker (whom I like) like me?
This will be long. He's a coworker I met almost 6 months ago. I'm 17, he's 20. He's a gamer kind of guy. The age difference doesn't bother him,... Show More
I'm not sure if he was leading me on or if he was just shooting for an awesome friendship. He said to me he doesn't want to ruin what we've got, and even though I had a sour mood for a while, I agreed. He's awesome and we have so much fun when we're together, so somehow I'm okay being friend-zoned. :) Thanks for your thoughts!
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There's a possibility that he likes you. But some people are different and their actions may lean towards them liking you but in reality it could just be that he's being very kind in a friendly way.
What Guys Said 13
Yes, he's interested in you. Guys usually provide special attention only to their family and to someone they really like.
Maybe he's not making a move because you failed to convey that you're interested in him through your actions/words. All men doesn't want to risk rejection, that's why they're waiting for your indicators and they will take it from there. Or if you do conveyed your feelings to him, perhaps he's just waiting for time.
Of course he likes you and when you turn 18 you guys should date.
Yeah, but just remember... "Don't sh*t where you eat".
He likes you and he's shy. Be flirty and fun. Hopefully he will take the hint eventually, but if not, there's nothing wrong with just telling him you want him to make a move.
He may be on the fence because you're not 18 yet, in which case, don't take that personally. Sounds like it's more that he's shy though.
Yes your co-worker (whom you like) likes you :-)
I'm gonna go with a big stubbly YES! and here is why:
1)If he is gravitating towards you this means he enjoys your company and want to spend more time with you, this can be seen as just him being friendly but if he is doing it religiously I'd say there is definitely more to it.
2)If he is asking you whether he should be clean-shaven or stubbly what he is really saying is "What do you prefer?" The reason for this is so that he can do what you prefer and maximize his chances of you liking him back. Although it may also be seen that he may just be asking for friendly advice, if this were the case then he may shave completely now and then rather than religiously making sure he is stubbly when in your presence.
3) The way I like to think of things like; him very actively defending you even when not explicitly necessary, is as a kind of Hypochondriac type thing, his mind tells him that if he takes even that chance to defend you then you will like him because he is willing to defend your honor over even something frivolous.
4) Flirting is the simplest form of courtship it doesn't matter how simple, if its flirting he likes you, its as simple as that, there is more of a biological/psychological technicality to this but it is a very large read so I won't go into it, unless you ask me to.
5) Offering to buy you things even when you have graciously say no is a sign of caring for you, he wants to buy you that comic book (despite you not wanting him to pay for it), so that you can enjoy it. He simply enjoys seeing you happy.
6) If he doesn't like text'ing when there is no point to the text, but texts you pointlessly this shows that he cares enough about you to want to talk to you, even without a subject.
7) Smiling is an excellent sign, its even better when he isn't really a smiley guy. This simply shows he really enjoys your company, and maybe that he can even tell you enjoy his.
If I am to be honest I would say take the plunge and ask him out, don't waste time, it would be a shame to let the love slip through your fingers.
Note: I didn't just skim this, I did a detailed response because I am trying to rid the world of girls who think too low of themselves when they are in fact beautiful, one article at a time.
Sounds like he likes you. Only thing that makes me uncertain is that he asked for your advice on shaving - usually I and other guys don't ask people we like for advice on looking good until we're sure asking them won't kill the mood or anything. It's almost like asking someone what to get them for their birthday, you know? You mainly wanna look good for this person, but that doesn't mean you should ask them how to look good for them.
Other than that though, it does sound like he likes you, but try not to get your hopes up. There's a chance you've just been friend zoned, so for now just play it cool and be his friend. Maybe flirt more with him and see how he reacts. But just go with the flow for now.
He does like you. But a big warning don't let this relationship go public at work. I've seen many of relationships rise and fall hard to the ground because it was associated with work. I too liked a girl I worked with but rumors spread and she backed off and I was left there trying to talk to her at work while rumors were being spread of an obsession with her. Now I can only look at her from afar and it kills me inside. Take it from me a guy with experience don't go after coworkers.
He is DEFINITELY into you! He smiles at you because he really likes you. He likes you so much he's even okay going to the movies with you when he knows it's not even a real "date." He had your back when somebody dissed you. As for the random, irrelevant conversations he starts with you . . . well look: Sometimes we guys just sort of mumble around when we want to be saying SOMETHING but we don't really have the perfect thing to say. The important thing is that he's talking to YOU. Whatever the hell it is he's mumbling about it doesn't matter. This guy likes you for sure.
You're 17, really?...I thought you were, 85
I am 46.64% sure he is in love with you
Dear (Age: over 45) ... am I addressing a liar?
Coworkers love to tease about such attractions & he is attracted
He is searching for some things in common for more interaction
He likes you
He seems to be trying hard to get some sort of response from you that equals his overt attraction but it seems from this report that you just observe, report, respond only when prodded. Are you a dead fish?
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