I've known this guy for about a year (same college classes). A few months ago he asked me out, we tried to plan a few more dates after that but we had pretty conflicting schedules so nothing really got planned and we'd just chat sometimes when we saw each other.
Now were on break, I asked him out, we had a good time. He then asked me to spend new years Eve with him. We just hung out at his place. I stayed the night (different beds). After hanging out the next day he kissed me . He convinced me to stay another night, again different beds. The next day we kept hanging out, by the end of the day we where kissing again and he ended up dry humping me. It progressed really quickly and I didn't quite realize what was going on for a bit. After a while I asked him to stop cause I wasn't sure how comfortable I was and we just layed and talked about relationships and where we thought we where. He said he really liked me, wasn't interested in just sex, wanted to be together more so he could get to know me even better. We both agreed that this all happened pretty suddenly and that we weren't expecting it.
So, do you think I went too far with him considering how much we've dated? Part of me thinks it was a bit too soon cause I don't want to seem easy but on the other hand I do like him, feel pretty comfortable with him and enjoyed it.
Now were on break, I asked him out, we had a good time. He then asked me to spend new years Eve with him. We just hung out at his place. I stayed the night (different beds). After hanging out the next day he kissed me . He convinced me to stay another night, again different beds. The next day we kept hanging out, by the end of the day we where kissing again and he ended up dry humping me. It progressed really quickly and I didn't quite realize what was going on for a bit. After a while I asked him to stop cause I wasn't sure how comfortable I was and we just layed and talked about relationships and where we thought we where. He said he really liked me, wasn't interested in just sex, wanted to be together more so he could get to know me even better. We both agreed that this all happened pretty suddenly and that we weren't expecting it.
So, do you think I went too far with him considering how much we've dated? Part of me thinks it was a bit too soon cause I don't want to seem easy but on the other hand I do like him, feel pretty comfortable with him and enjoyed it.
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