A girl I like kissed me while we were out on new years eve, we texted the day after now she is ignoring me. I know she likes me and she knows I like her, why is she ignoring me?
Why would she kiss me and then ignore me?
Either regret, embarrassment, playing a game (wait for a few days until responding, see how much you beg, etc.), she still has a hangover from that wild party on New Years Eve or still partying.
It depends on how she reacts and how well you know her if she's worth the chase on figuring out if she wants to be chased or not. A lot of girls romanticize on a guy interrupting her life by declaring his undeniable attraction to her, but girls have a more tendency to switch depending on her mood and not her belief. Such as she wants to swoon from a man's determination of affection but when a guy actually pursues it, she uses it to complain to her friends that someone is stalking her to be dramatic (yet can still date you in the end anyway). The common trait is she doesn't know what to do due to her own personal conflicts (has a boyfriend, is shy, wants you but don't want you - what the heck, is terrible at responding back to texts only). You can wait for a response or make a plan to meet her.
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I can't really give an accurate answer on this simply not knowing the pair of you, what kind of person she is etc etc.
I can take a stab in the dark though, was she drinking? If so I know from experience and being young and silly, when you know a guy likes you even if you don't feel that way for them, it makes you feel better about yourself and sometimes you do things that you feel will boost your self esteem or make you feel good, and when alcohol comes into it, then it makes our choices that much easier as you don't care.
Maybe she liked you but is having second thoughts?
Maybe you are smothering her and she is freaked out?
Maybe she didn't like you and kissed you because that's just sometimes what we do and she is regretting it?
If she liked you she wouldn't ignore you.
Maybe take the hint and leave her alone and if she contacts you then great if not you won't have to worry about her thinking you're a stalker
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I think she is expecting you to get ahold of her. If you have and she isn't texting back I'm sure she is just busy. If she really is contemplating whether or not to be with you, give her the time and space she needs but don't wait too long. I would rather mess it up trying than mess it up because you gave her too much space and she lost interest.
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If you are sure she likes you, then she's probably one of those dumb girls who subscribes to the idea that playing hard to get makes guys want you more. Worst advice women have ever been given.
Regardless, you've made your move, not its her turn. Just put down the phone and leave her alone. Ironically this will make you look more attractive. Not suggesting you ignore her per-se, but show her that she's not the center of your universe, that while you are interested, you have a life too and don't have time to wait around for her like a puppy dog.
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It's clear that she's interested in you, but you need to chase her.
She wants to be chased, and the hard to get part. Just give in to this little whim of hers because if you won't, she'll take this as a sign that you've lost interest in her, and she'll move on, putting you in the friend-zone.
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act like you don't give a f*ck... she'll then turn to her girls and this would be the exact condo:
girl:"omg I totally ruined things. outofthis and I aren't talking anymore, because I tried to play hard to get"
friend:"your so stupid, like who cares, just text him"
*they start to contemplate rather or not to text you, say YOLO, and you'll recieve a text*
YAYAYYA , the end (: -
she embarrassed? in middle school a boy kissed me then ran away. I guess he was scared lol and he avoided me for a while too. after that I tried to flirt with him but he was just too slow to figure it out lol
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I second lollipanda. Seems to me like she's taking some time to chill out and think. You should wait another day or two before texting her again. Give her some time.
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Maybe she was drunk and didn't actually want to start an ongoing thing with you.
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Well. If she's ignoring you why keep calling her to get rejected.its clear she wants to be alone because she would talk to. Your choice.
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Maybe she wants you to try to make the move and talk to her, you can't always expect the Girl to go after you
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She's thinking. Let her be and stop contacting her. When she's ready she will call you.
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Why do t you just let her contact you if she wants to. If she doesn't then take it as a sign.
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I wish i knew too. This exact thing happened to me and i can't help be hurt by it you know x
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How long have you been waiting for her to reply?`
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She's playing hard to get. I hate games!
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its news years she was probally just having fun.
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Maybe she's regretting the kiss
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Was she drunk?
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Maybe she was drunk.
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