I've gotten what seems to be both positive and negative signals coming from the same girl. I have a good case to just drop it and a good case to follow through with it but I'm not exactly sure which one to take. So guys and gals, how do you deal with mixed signals such as this?
It's difficult. I'm pretty stubborn so I usually try to push past it. But if it goes on for too long, I get extremely bored really fast. Like, say that it goes on for a month or two. I might be all for pushing through it during that entire time, but then one day I wake up and realize that I'm just sick and tired of it. So I drop it.
If the girl you're chasing hasn't stopped sending you mixed signals over the course of a few months, you should probably drop it. Either she's just playing games with you (which can be fun for a short while, but tiring in the long run, and who's to say she'll stop once you get into a relationship?) or just really unsure of her own feelings (which isn't good either, because who wants to be with a person who can't decide if they truly like you or not...)
I wish you the best of luck anyway! I hope she comes around soon enough.
Step aside & walk away, but only do that if she knows you like her & you made it clear. She'll either show her true feelings if any or she will go for a new guy. If she ends up with someone else then you at least didn't waste your time & know for sure.