Guys: if you ask a friend who is a girl to come out and visit you in another state....
Are you interested in her? My friend j wants me to come out and stay with him for a weekend next month. I'd be staying with him, doing everything... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
I did this recently and it turned ugly. First it was great and then it got awkward. At first I went as only a friend but I started to fall for him (he liked me before I went). But when I fell for him, he started pulling away. Eventually we hung out one more time and then it just got really awkward and we haven't really kept in touch since.
I would say its better to hang out especially before going on a long stay like that. Otherwise you may end up in a weird situation where neither of you know what is going on.
What Guys Said 2
This is not an indication of him liking you.
How liberal are you and he? Would he want a fling or is he being serious. If you feel he is liberal and casual wait a little longer. Or just go for the fun of it and see what happens. Set the ground rules before you go ;)
What Girls Said 2
Im sorry but if he really liked you he would visit you in your state. Is he going to pay for traveling expenses?