I did this recently and it turned ugly. First it was great and then it got awkward. At first I went as only a friend but I started to fall for him (he liked me before I went). But when I fell for him, he started pulling away. Eventually we hung out one more time and then it just got really awkward and we haven't really kept in touch since.I would say its better to hang out especially before going on a long stay like that. Otherwise you may end up in a weird situation where neither of you know what is going on.
This is not an indication of him liking you.
How liberal are you and he? Would he want a fling or is he being serious. If you feel he is liberal and casual wait a little longer. Or just go for the fun of it and see what happens. Set the ground rules before you go ;)
Im sorry but if he really liked you he would visit you in your state. Is he going to pay for traveling expenses?
Guys: if you ask a friend who is a girl to come out and visit you in another state....
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