Guys: if you ask a friend who is a girl to come out and visit you in another state....
Are you interested in her? My friend j wants me to come out and stay with him for a weekend next month. I'd be staying with him, doing everything with him whil I'm there. He has talked to me about it 4 times already, is he interested?
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I did this recently and it turned ugly. First it was great and then it got awkward. At first I went as only a friend but I started to fall for him (he liked me before I went). But when I fell for him, he started pulling away. Eventually we hung out one more time and then it just got really awkward and we haven't really kept in touch since.I would say its better to hang out especially before going on a long stay like that. Otherwise you may end up in a weird situation where neither of you know what is going on.