Earthy,artsy,and intelligent is how most hippies describe themselves. After a man gets sex with you a few times, they will pursue other challenges,cause he already conquered your territory.All men are pigs! I know this because I'm a man pig too. This is why most longterm relationships don't start with sex till after a month or months of dating. If you give it up before, this is what happens. Training a man is a lot like training a dog, don't give him a cookie(sex) when he sh*ts on your floor. If you reward a man with sex in a relationship too soon, he feels like,"that was easy,now let's see what other girls offer",before he's even gotten a chance to get to know you and fall for the non sexual stuff.