How do I get him to hold my hand and make out.?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 5 months now. Last year we dated for six months. But we always talk and we always hug and kiss.. We never make out or hold hands. He's leaving for vacation soon and I'd really like it if we were at least at the holding hands stage before he leaves. How can I leave hints without my friends noticing and how can I get him to hold my hand/ make out with me.? PLEASE HELP! HE LEAVES ON THE 8TH OF February! He'll be back a week later..

[bruvleigh]

the holding hands stage? is there such a stage? I though the stages were first base, making out, second base playing with the other person using hands(no not holding hands) 3rd base oral sex and the 4th base all the way. wow youve got a slow moving thing going here 5 months and no hand holding, my god that's usually happening BEFORE the relationship starts what it sounds like is that youve just got a good friend not a boyfriend sh*t I hug all of my mates lol

Wow your in a pickle but the first thing I will say is that my least favorite word about this kind of stuff that you could possibly use is written in your question... "hints"

NO GOD DAMMIT NO YOU WILL GET NOWHERE WITH HINTING

If you want to hold his hand then HOLD HIS HAND

if you want to make out with him JUST DO IT

have you ever considered that he won't do these things until you do first? because he's assuming YOU arnt ready for these things? as a guy he can't be a d***head and be TOO forward ( I can't believe this apply s to hand holding lol) so he's waiting for you to initiate.

rule 101 Hints do not work on guys... EVER!

btw how old are you it sounds like a very "young person" relationship

[Premonition]

few stages ideas.

1. pretend your hand hurts, he should rush to your sides, an begin holding an rubbing your hand, in order to comfort you, when he does this look deeply into his eyes tell him how much you love him an how the way the he touches your hand turns you on.

2. When you sleep together, hold his hand, let his sleepy mind adjust to your sweet soft hands.

3. Every morning grab his hand,place it on your cheek. admire him, use both hands to one hand an give his hand a massage, his eyes should light up & want to explore your hand Hench Holding Hands.

[islands7]

Hints?

We don't need no sticking hints!

Grab his hand at every opportunity

Explanations? Really?

If you really must provide one, then it's to help you across the street, out of the car, in the door ... maybe your ankles just got really weak, sister & they need support!

Determine your goals then hurtle the obstacles like an athlete.

[gaggleii]

You say you hug and kiss him. Isn't that better than holding hands? The next time you kiss, let it linger a bit longer and put some passion into it. So at least it's closer to making out than just a little kiss.

[MrOracle]

Three words:

YOU INITIATE IT.

He will follow your lead, trust me.

[jacquesvol]

The two first girls who I made out with didn't wait for me to ask it: they made eye contact, I nodded, and a minute later we were 'close'.

No, they were NOT sluts.

[ajt14]

I agree with MrOracle.

You initiate it, He will like it a lot.

[shiller]

Go for his hand when yous are walking together.

[MrWhiteGuy420]

Dump him, he's gay!

[kevenb]

hes gay.

[Anonymous]

initiate it...