Why are some guys mean to pretty girls?

[Anonymous]

Why is it that some guys ignore pretty girls sometimes? Why don't they just talk to them and see if they are nice? It seems like some guys even act like jerks around them. Everyone one says I'm very pretty for some reason, but I don't let it get to my head...I have smarts and goals too. but this happens all the time to me with guys and I'm not trying to be conceited because there are so many other nice pretty girls that this happens to too. and they are NICE girls...i'm not talking about the mean pretty ones. For example one time we were asked to get into groups in my one class in college and this one guy talked to everyone else in the group girls and guys but not me. So when I went around to ask everyone's name in the group he didn't even look at me and mumbled his name in moody way. then he started talking to every single person around him in a nice way. I acted like everyone else in the group so I'm not sure why he would act that way towards me. It kinda hurts that I'm not treated with respect but other people are. why do guys do this?

[Meedo]

Could be many reasons

1- It could be that he felt you were stuck up and this turned him off. Being stuck up is actually a big turn off even if you are gorgeous. Because it swiftly gives away how you are gonna treat a guy for the rest of your relationship . Note that you can '' look '' stuck up even if you don't mean to. Like you give short answers. Frown , huff and puff, always hang around certain people and ignore others. etc.. I think you are a good girl. No one wants you to bea doormat or anything. Just be a confident BUT sweet , kind girl and you are every guys dream.

2- It could be part of the game they are playing on you . Let me tell it to you plain and simple. Girls have many defences and if a guy wants a girl the worst thing he can do is to try to be exactly what she wants him to be. She looses interest , respect and eventually finds him boring. Stuck him in the friend zone . So guys have learnt to not make girls feel they are easy . Girls mix up confidence with arrogance and neglect. You do it without knowing you do it. Many guys started realising this and started adjusting their game. I know you read this and say to yourself '' No way .. I am not that kind of girl etc'' But look around you girls flock for bad boys persona .. ask yourself why and ask yourself if men are to blame if they wanna be part of that persona. Some girls feel that their pride as modern empowered feminist girls drives them to reject this theory. Sure.. for every rule there are exceptions. But when I am saying this I am not trying to be bitter towards girls. On the contrary.. I have always believed that a girl need to find the partner that she finds attractive. And if I am not yet on the level she finds attractive.. then I can develop myself further. I am sure you will get an awesome dude who will make your lif wonderful. Weather bad boy or not .

3- Look at your question, you are writing this question because you are intrigued.. you are thinking about this guy. Deep down inside you felt that you needed that attention . He basically succeeded in making your emotions run. If this guy meets you tomorrow and show interest in you in a subtle way .. you will be even more intrigued and will start developing butterflies . You wil not do that if he was straight in complimenting you from Moment one . Pull and push .. my friend. Its how humans work . not only girls .

Take it easy .. you will get an awesome guy . The secret is to be confident , but in the same time, sweet and kind.

[Anonymous]

My experiences with pretty girls have been pretty bad. From the girls that I have met, they act as if they are really nice, but then don't care if they hurt your feelings at all. What you mostly consider nice, is what I consider a run for the hills!

[Anonymous]

They are insecure and feel that they can't get a pretty girl. So they decide to be mean to her to cover up their feelings of rejection/insecurity.

You can't please everyone. Nobody is always going to like you and that's just the way things are. If someone is disrespectful to you call them out on their behavior don't just sit there and take it. At the end of the day, it's better to be a pretty girl than an ugly girl because guys are really mean to uglies, but nobody has to take rudeness no matter what they look like

[snowangle]

A lot of guys seem to have this idea that pretty girls are stuck up. That would explain why so many guys (strangers) seem surprised when I smile at them and show them I'm friendly.

[moosette134]

This happens to me all the time. My dad says they're intimidated :/

[Asker]

Yeah that has to be it

[Anonymous]

He probably acted that way toward you because you were the only one he was really interested in. You are a victim of the fact that girls are generally more drawn to guys who are aloof or even jerks. Probably the best thing you can do is ignore him too.

[Asker]

thanks so much, never thought of it like that. I guess a lot of girls do like that jerk kind of guy. but yeah I'm just going to ignore him because I don't put up with those kind of guys. thanks for your input!

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you. Unfortunately it's fairly common guy behavior. Don't reward it. ;)

[Quacken]

Intimidation.. Just like if I thought you were very pretty I wouldn't ask you out. Because I would think you would say no.

[Asker]

thanks for your input! yeah makes sense

[Anonymous]

Do you follow these guys around and record all their interactions? If you don't, you can't say they're not just jerks in general. Maybe you're just looking to hear what you want to hear?

[Anonymous]

It seems that you did something to upset him or he's just shy to talk to you.

[Anonymous]

Pretty girls feel entitled

[Anonymous]

Everyone seems to be that way nowadays lol.