Pros about me : -good swimmer -good singer (Well kinda) -go to the gym 4 times a week hoping that muscles will make a girl attracted to me Cons... Show More
anyways please no telling me be confiBS
just a simple yes , you are pathetic or no , an old desperate woman will settle for you until she finds someone better
Most Helpful Opinion
Would you love an average/nice looking girl who was obsessed with the idea that she was ugly, that you didn't really like her, and the fear that she was going to die alone?
Here's WHY confidence is important to girls:
Girls like to feel like they can influence your emotions in a good way. In other words, we feel good about ourselves if we can make other people feel happy. In reverse, we like people more if we know that we make them happy.
If a girl comes up to you (or even just comments on here) and tries to alleviate your mood, but you refuse to be cheered up, we get discouraged. We feel like failures and that our efforts are being sucked away into an emotional black hole.
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
Spread happiness. Everyone wants happiness. Therefore, if you sound happy, girls will want to know why and where you get your happiness, because they want to be happy too. THAT is how you attract girls. Muscles help, but not nearly as much as most guys think. Think about emotions logically if that's possible. Try to understand things from our perspective, plan your behavior accordingly, and you'll have a positive feedback with good results.
Hope that helps :)
PS: for the record - not pathetic! At ALL. You just need to snap out of your disillusion and return to thinking rather than feeling, and you'll be set!