so there is these girl at work that I know for a year and we are friends and we start to flirt a few weeks back, all the good stuff giggles, smiles, eyes, and a lot of teasing back and forth. we are close so we talk a lot and I know there is these other guy she likes so after some time she started talking to me about these guy a lot like she tells me she likes him and stuff. so my question is:
i was pretty sure she liked me and was gonna ask her out but I took my time so is she pulling me away or making me jealous so I move forward?
she still flirts a lot whit me but also talks about these guy randomly I don't wanna make things awkward between us should I just stay friends or risk the friendship and tell her?
ps she might think that I'm dating someone else due to a misunderstanding( its complicated )but I'm not sure...
But she may think you don't like her. She may think she's in YOUR friend zone.
From personal experience, just because I've told myself that a guy I like doesn't like me back and I go onto the next guy, it doesn't mean that I don't like my guy friend anymore. It just means that I'm trying to not like him anymore by getting a distraction (another guy). So, what I would say to you is to go on and ask her out without asking her out. Take her out somewhere like a movie or something and compliment her. Tell her she looks beautiful or something and be a completely gentleman. Try and brush against her and flirt. Let her see that she's not a friend to you.
At the end of the night, you can kiss her on the cheek goodbye and be a little close to her lips when you do. You can ask her to do other stuff too, but make sure it's just you and her so she doesn't get confused with group activities.
She's not in love or married to these other guys she likes. She probably likes them and likes you too. That's always a possibility. I think that everybody's kinda right on this one: she's moving on, but she's still trying to make you jealous too. Maybe this is her way of getting your attention by proving that she's datable to other men so she can look more appealing to you.
If that rambled mess didn't make any sense, I'll try and simplify it: she still likes you, ask her out to the movies or something, flirt, flirt, flirt, and see how it ends up.
well I'm going to say you probably took to long and she decided to move on because she didn't see you ever making a move to ask her out...the best you can do is show her how interested you are besides th whole eye flirting stuff...
It's either, she really doesn't like you, and wants to give out the hint, without hurting your feelings, or since your taking it slow, she is probably so anxious get with you, that she is trying to make you jealous, or think that you are running out of time to get with her.