sooo any advice?
to paraphrase what I'm really asking is ladies: when guys approach you that you are into : how do you decide what guys lump into the potential boyfriend categories and which ones do you just want to hookup and have fun with?
if this idea doesn't apply to you then it doesn't apply to you, any pretentious self aggrandizing remarks on how you don't just go out and hook up with people are unnecesary
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