Girls how do you flirt with strangers?

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I'm not good with guys, they kind of intimidate me to be honest, plus the guys that usually lke me are super aggressive and forward. I wa at the laundromat and there was this total beefcake there, and I don't know if he was interested in me or whatever. BUt I wish I wasn't such a wuss sometimes and that I just said hi, because we just kept looking at one another, and then he moved the bench I was sitting on and sat on it himself (so strong) lol. And he kept comming super close behind me which is why I noticed him to begin with, you know when you can feel someone's body heat on you. I just felt so lame being thristy at the laundromat.

Girls that are good flirts what do you do in a situation like this without being too forward. I kinda joked and said hey what happened did you take my chair? And he smiled and said sorry with one eyebrow cocked. But that's all I said to him he seemed kind of embarrassed. But he kept looking at me. I don't know what do you do in this situation, I just feel like the worst thing that could happen is that he says you are ugly and I don't want to date you, and in that case all I have to do is find another laundromat to go to. ha ha I just wish I had said something, so what is your advice in case this happens again? How do you flirt with a hot stranger without appearing thirsty or desperate. Thanks ladies :p

Meedo · Accepted Answer

With guys.. my best advice is to use an indirect but obvious conversation starter.. basically ask him to help you .. with anything.. guys LOVE to help women .. it is in our instinct . It ignites the protective , provider streak in us and makes us feel manly and useful .. as I said it is in our instinct.

Whe the conversation gets going.. he will start trying to impress you ...now this is the time for you to give the body language hints ... laugh at his jokes..joke a lot with him ... stand close to him .. touch him accidentaliy ...smile... play with your hair.. now at this moment.. he is thinking that

1- He impressed you

2- You like his humour

3- He is a manly man and he helped a lady in distress

4- You are clearly receptive of him

5- There is nothing that blocks him from asking for your contact details

in this way .. you helped ''him'' approach ''you'' that means you didn't have to get an instant rejection at the very moment. If you say to him you are really handsome.. it means that he has to give an answer right away .. either he likes you or not . But if you make it as if you got to know each other like above.. then you are starting to be ''friends'' or '' aquaintances'' and you are giving him the chance to think about you and not feel pressured.

if you have questions message me .

shumailkazimi · Accepted Answer

this sounds a little strange, but you're looking for an answer, so I'll give it to you. chances are there will be a lot of people there, bump into a few cute guys, and look into their eyes say, "sorry... I'm________, what about you?" don't do this with guys who have a girl next to them, girlfriend or just friend, chances are they'll know what you're up to. talk for a little bit, don't ask for his, let him ask for your number, asking for his is too "brazen" for a girl... in my opinion, I mean hey, if you really think you like this guy, go for it, say, "soo... do you have a phone?" don't dress like a slut... it's hard for guys to talk to you like that, and how do you ride rides looking like a slut?! anyways, ask if he wants to go on a ride with you or something

smalls1995 · Accepted Answer

I don't flirt, but if there's a cute guy beside me and he's not compeletely ignoring my existence, its not hard to start a conversation especially in your situation. If you were both waiting you could have just said something like "ugh I hate waiting here, it takes so long" just something common that is easier for him to respond to. If he just says yeah and doesn't want to continue speaking, then you know he doesn't want to talk to you. It doesn't make you look desperate at all, it just makes you look really approachable. I've actually done it a few times because I know I'm not making a fool of myself, I'm just being friendly. Every time I've done this, it has worked out super well. Some guys aren't good at initiating conversation so if that's what you need to do, do it!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You mean a random stranger on the street, or someone you know of but your just not friends? I personally wouldn't flirt with a random guy I'm seeing for the first time. But anyways when flirting smile, you have to look approachable. I'm a shy person, so I'm kind of a "shy flirter" I guess. I tend to play with my hair, I won't make a lot of eye contact, but when I do I make sure to have a smile on my face. Compliment the guy at least once, it can be on there sneakers anything. If he compliments you back, say thank you.

justbanANNAz · Accepted Answer

u probably werent looking for this but I don't flirt with a stranger.

if a stranger flirts with me then ill go along with it as a joke for awhile but eventually ill just make it fade out or change the subject.

i like to flirt 'cheekily' in a friendly kinda way, I'm not sure if that makes sense. I don't really mean anything by it.

cavmanier · Answer

I'd just try talking with them and if the conversation went well I'd say you should give me a call sometime. If I really like a girl I'll ask if I can give her a call sometime, but I really don't do that. I'm not going to proclaim interest in someone I just met as more than friends though.

qwer1234 · Answer

> the guys that usually lke me are super aggressive and forward

Lol... these kind of guys don't like you in particular. These kind of guys "like" everyone who belongs to the female category of the species Homo Sapiens Sapiens. XD

Anonymous · Answer

I am really lame.. I would probably ask if he goes here often to do laundry, then joke about how nice their new washers are, then say "well, see you around" and then never see him again... hm this is where I always fail...

Anonymous · Answer

Smile a lot, play with your hair, touch their arms lightly or their clothes, make jokes and laugh at theirs, help them with something if you can, ask them to help you.

Anonymous · Answer

i would just say hi and ask fro a suggesitong or help with something related to where we are and then jus tstart a conversation from there

Anonymous · Answer

Wait girls flirt? Let me guess only with the good looking guys am I right?

Anonymous · Answer

Just smile and start a convo. It takes practically nothing to get a guy interested in you And why are the boys answering?

Anonymous · Answer

i don't flirt with strangers, ever

JennyBenny318 · Answer

I don't.

Anonymous · Answer

those guys only want to get laid.

Anonymous · Answer

Eye contact etc

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