Why am I always being ditched or insulted by guys?

ok, for a guy a girl like me should be a dream. I'm really beautiful, really kind nice sweet caring monogamous loyal compassionate down to earth etc. I'm not bossy I'm laid back just super cool. I meet men online or other ways, and men either ditch me right away or insult me, or some men in general... Show More

it gets tiring and difficult...Im always being insulted put down harassed rejected by men some who are even "crazy about me"...like they are looking at me like OMG?! or flabberghasted by me...but men will date and go out with ugly women who are rude bossy mean crazy psycho with 100 flaws who are horrible people cheaters liars...then meet me...like a dream girl and treat me like sh*t...why do they enjoy abusing me when I'm a nice and good person? are they jealous of me?
also if you are going to comment with ignorant and outrageously STUPID comments like teamguy, don't even bother. I'm looking for an intelligent answer as to why men would reject insult and mistreat a beautiful nice female, while putting up with arrogance evil abuse cheating and mean women. Why are men cruel to nice women while kissing mean women's a**es...this seems to be a huge problem, and I represent beauty/kindness and why wouldn't men embrace this and why would they abuse it.

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  • okay well for starters and don't take this the wrong way but you seem very full of yourself. Its great to have confidence and yes that's attractive to us guys but there is a line and once passed many guys are turned off and just see a douchey sort of princess type girl and don't want anything to do with it. As for the insults, I'm sorry you've had to deal with such immature "men" but you could be possibly overlooking things that you may have said to set them off. It could be something that you don't see as a big deal but maybe they are sensitive about? I'm not sure. When on a first date do not talk about your modelling or how nice or great you are or how great of a catch you are, sure that may be true but you have to let those guys find that out for themselves THATS THE POINT OF DATING! Another possibility is that you could have a problem reading social cues, I have a friend who is the same way and he's going through some therapy to help work it out. Its not an abnormal thing to have and maybe you should get that checked out if you think that's a possibility.

    To be able to get a better idea of what's going on here Id have to know you or know specifics on how your actual dates went :/ there could be 1000 things going wrong but its hard for me to tell.

    could you possibly give me some dialogue from like 10 min before they ditched?

    • you put a question on the internet asking for people opinions... I gave you things that It could possibly be, I'm not going to spoon feed you BS and tell you "every one of those guys is stupid and doesn't know what theyre missing out on, you're clearly perfect since every guy is falling all over you and not ditching you on dates...". Maybe its your aggression and failure to take open advice that YOU ASKED FOR. I wasn't out to attack you... I was simply giving you possibilities

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    • I agree with TeamNiceGuy, If you want help then don't start insulting people. He was clearly just giving possible ideas out there, not attacking you so chill. For someone who describes themself as "kind" "sweet" "caring" and "down to earth" you are not representing yourself to well here by freaking out on what seems to be someone who actually cares to help you out :S

    • I agree with Mr. nice guy here, accept the help, there is obviously a reason to why people reject you, if you are THAT perfect...