I approach guys. its no big deal. just go talk. if you don't click or or doesn't like you move on, it doesn't matter, ultimately you'll die either way.
just don't get all revved up about it. just go talk he's just a guy you're just talking.dont get all invested over it and move on if it doesn't feel right. do it ALOT. the more you do something the easier it guys and the less you have to concern yourself with the details because yo just figure it out along the way.
think about it this way. its acquisition of power. once you approach you never have to sit around thinking of how to make a guy approach or why he isn't approaching or why it taking him so long or choose from guys you're not actually into. put your life into your own hands and deal with it. its a lot better in the long run.
just go. go talk. now,
The average guy feels like approaching you as much as you want to approach them. If you refuse to approach men then you have to do 5 things;
1. accept that your choice of men to date will be MUCH smaller.
2. Stop being subtle you will have to be more obvious.
3. Be patient and accept that it will take many men what seems like a really long time before they make a move.
4. Understand that it's a good thing if a guy is cautious about talking to you because it means he is emotionally invested in his dating life as opposed to looking really confident but actually just not caring about you.
5. Accept that life can be sh*tty and often you will get a raw deal so be ready to grow and move on.
That's a tough one. It depends on how bold the guy is to begin with.
I play the exact opposite role; for instance.
If I were to try to attract a girl to approach me (happens often) I would dress and style my hair into a casual "SEXY" style.
However if I were to try to approach a girl, I would dress/style myself into a "CUTE" type.
Reason being is;
Cute/approach is a form of innocence and I create false sense of security.
Sexy/patience is a form of attraction, and let's the person know that they are bold (hotness)
FINAL ADVICE: Guys don't have to approach all the time. You need to play a role too.
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1. LOOKS
Obviously you know nothing about a persons personality, so you must go off looks.
Do they look cute and sexy?
Do they dress well?
The way a person takes care of themselves says a lot about that person.
Personally I never approach super attractive girls as I am too self conscious, But I approach semi attractive girls. Superficial? Maybe, but that's what most people are.
I feel like there are too many reasons for a guy to approach a girl. Because guys can approach girl from a not much feeling to serious love range. So it is hard to tell you. But they do can nervous. The more serious they are the more nervous they are inside. That is why some people say, it is hard to get the one you love the most because the girl you like the most are the one that makes you can't act like yourself and end up not able to show the charming side of himself.
When I aproch a girl it is usdally because there cute what makes us do that well for me anyways is my pride I want the girl to know I will tell you what I feel and how I feel and nit be scared of what she well say plus I'm the type of guy who if it doesn't work no worries she wasn't it move on so that's the reason I ask and break the ice first
Most guys feel VERY nervous and don't approach random girls. It's 90% of the time attraction or interest, most guys don't develop balls of steel for more friends.
"we'd rather stare and smile to signal them to come forward. "
Except you're all too terrified to actually give the "come forward" sign too.
Looks and demeanour.
Looks is self-explanatory, but if she looks angry, or sad, or bitchy, I don't need that to face.
its mostly about guts. guys are most of the time afraid to even show the girl any interest
Yes, of course, guys feel just as nervous as girls would when approaching.
If a girl's attractive and she looks approachable, a guy will approach.
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