6 months and he doesn't know my last name

[jayhoney]

I have been seeing this guy for six months and we have confessed our love for each other. When we are together, we always have a great time. Just the other night while talking on the phone it was revealed to me by mistake that he doesn't even know my last name! I tried to talk to him about this but he wanted to get off the phone "he was sleepy". So We hung up, and I began texting him nasty messages Like: F*** you, how can you love someone and not even know their last name, I feel like just a f*** buddy to you, go f*** someone whose last name you know, and I called him not an asshole but a whole ass. I did this in several texts. Do you think I wilded out too much and what do you think he thinks now. I have not talked to him since this which was about two nights ago.

[UltraDramatic]

What does he think now? I can guess . . . "okay, psycho hose beast. I'm out."

Honestly, to him, a last name could simply be a detail that was less important than how he felt about you. If he really does love you, and he hasn't been deterred by your overboard tirade, try to be understanding.

Of course, if he hasn't tried to get in contact with you since receiving those messages, it's a safe bet he's cashed in and left the table. Chalk this up to a bad decision and go from here.

[hootie]

So what you are saying is that you don't love him? Because if you did love him, what would knowing your last name change? If you get married it will be something different anyways, Sounds like you are better without him, God who wants a man to love you but not remember your last name?

[triniia]

Okk. It is kinda funny that he did not know your last name. But oh gosh did you really have to get on like that. I mean wow....so I guess since you are so upset that he did not know your last name and well you basically told him off all that who confessing of love for one another is like null and void now huh.....oh how quickly people fall in and out of love.

[cRaZyBeAuTiFuL91]

That may have been a little drastic. I mean yes, it is upsetting, I went through the same thing, but there is no reason to talk to him like that, because I know you didn't mean it. If you meant that stuff about him you wouldn't have ever said it, because you wouldn't have cared whether or not he knew your name. Does that make sense?

[keira]

That's nice - I will note your question. Hmm... foul mouth though, but I guess my thoughts can be removed.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

What does he think now? I can guess. . . "okay, psycho hose beast. I'm out."

Honestly, to him, a last name could simply be a detail that was less important than how he felt about you. If he really does love you, and he hasn't been deterred by your overboard tirade, try to be understanding.

Of course, if he hasn't tried to get in contact with you since receiving those messages, it's a safe bet he's cashed in and left the table. Chalk this up to a bad decision and go from here.

[crazngirl]

Maybe you should talk to him about things that you want him to know but that's messed up how he don't know your last name. I'll be upset, too.

[Schwildcat]

You have to remember, men have a chronic case of CRS - Can't remember S**T