I want to start wearing skirts and dresses but I'm not confident enough, help?

[Anonymous]

I'm 20 years old and I want to start wearing dresses and skirts when I go out places and act like a proper female.. I wear mainly unisex alternative rock clothing and some women alternative rock clothing etc.. But people always ask me whether I'm a boy or girl.. I've got small breasts about a B size but when I can financially afford it I'm having breast surgery. It really gets to me because I'm 100% happy being a girl and I wouldn't change it for the world. I lost my mum when I was 8 years old in 2001 and my dad never remarried etc.. so I've only lived with my dad and 3 brothers through the rest of my child hood. I haven't had a woman figure in my life and I partly blame that on me not being too feminine. Anyone got any suggestions on how I can wear skirts and dresses without having idiotic questions thrown at me?

Please no being nasty, I'm only asking to help me out :(

[Anonymous]

a matter of being comfortable. you have been in that comfort zone for years. take it one step at a time. start wearing it at home, show your dad, ask him what he thinks and tell him what you told us. if you and your brothers are close, you can ask them, otherwise, wait till they are not around if they are the type to make fun lol

i am an A cup and in my late 30s :) and no guys have complained, they will like you as a whole package. I don't agree with breast implants.

try darker colors first, easier to not be too shock on your eyes. later on, you can try some colors. you can have some fun at home, take some pictures for us here :)

have fun finding your "womanhood"

[Asker]

My brothers are all older than me and they've left home now. I'm already in a relationship so I'm not doing it to impress people, it's just starting to get me down really bad now and there's only me who can change it D:

[Opinion Owner]

happy to hear that. that was step 1, now lets do step 2. :) and let us know have fun

[Longshot]

I suggest you start with a darker skirt and not one that is too tight or short either. You might buy one that is cheap so you can try it out at home, walk around and go up and down stairs, etc. You will get used to it pretty quickly.

[martyfellow]

Your breast size isn't going to hold you back in life. Some of us (ahem) prefer smaller breasted women.

Don't obsess about your figure. And unisex clothing on smaller girls is cute, imao.

[Asker]

I'm a size 8/10 uk size but I always feel fat and then my breast and peoples comments knocks my confidence right down D:

[martyfellow]

Practice ignoring comments, or practice karate and hit them when they make comments.