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Should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend that you slept with a coworker?

Before you began dating your bf/ girlfriend you had a fling with a coworker and you guys had sex. Now that the boyfriend/girlfriend is in the pic is it mandatory for you to let em know this? Do you think he/she has every right to know this OR do you think it will cause problems ? for example, the boyfriend/girlfriend might constantly wonder if you guys are still flirting around or even worst sleeping together. So is it best for them to not know or do you think you should explain to the boyfriend/girlfriend that its the past and they should trust u. For the record sex is not going on between the old flames. no flirting either and talking between them is work related.
Yes. Relationships should not have major secrets plus you guys need to trust each other.
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No. More problems will arise from telling your So
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i don't think you need to tell. however if you are so close to this coworker that you feel a need to tell the information you may have a different problem on your hands.

    why would be trying to cover something if there was nothing to hide? meaning that if the coworker was such a done deal why do you even feel the need to mention it? I don't expect to know all of my partner's past sexcapades nor do I want to divulge mine.

  • No.

    I think it would cause more trouble than good. He will start to worry and potentially get jealous.

    You're with your boyfriend and not the other guy and it happened awhile ago so it doesn't really matter. It's not feasible or worthwhile to tell each other everyone you slept with in the event of an encounter. If he asks don't lie but don't volunteer it.

  • If this was before you started dating your boyfriend you don't have to mention it, unless he asks. Leave the past in the past, don't bring it up unless you have to.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I say only tell unless your boyfriend asks u... don't get a shovel and dig up the past unnecessarily.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You can if you want to but I feel like that is unnecessary drama, leave it alone

  • If it is before knowing the boyfriend and there's nothing going on between co worker and me I wouldn't tell him anything. Everybody has a past. It is not cheating or anything.

  • No it might cause more issues in the long run especially if it is a new relationship.

  • LAMO, I read it like cow-worker

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