Why after telling my boyfriend I'm pregnant, he is ignoring me?

[Anonymous]

I told my boyfriend that I'm pregnant. He is not returning my phone calls. He came by to see some neighbors, but did not come by to see me. Why is he ignoring me? This hurts so bad!

[Woman2005]

Sorry, I can't imagine the pain you feel right now. That must be so hard for you to wrap your mind around. So many questions and anxieties you must feel right now. I'm gonna keep it real. You may never understand his ways so don't try because it can make you crazy.

He is lame! Hope your family and friends provide a good support system. Lean on them. I wouldn't depend on him so much. Have a couple of losers like that in my family. There is only a slight and I mean very slight chance that he will be available and back with you. If he was a teenager he might have a pass to be scared, but you guys are adults...

Seeing your neighbor but not coming to see YOU his PREGNANT girlfriend who he claimed he loves...has he no concern for your health or the health of his child...sorry just screams LOSER! Hope you can take care of the baby on your own just in case he doesn't shape up. Prepare yourself now for the reality of the situation and don't have anymore kids with him if he doesn't help with this one.

[Vesuvius87]

Did the two of you had a previous discussion about parenthood? Is he the type that wants kids too or was this a surprise pregnancy? It doesn't seem like he was ready for that news.

[Anonymous]

What the kinkle chic said. He may be scared. I would be. Give him a chance to get used to the idea that he's going to be a father. If he's still not talking with you then he's an a**hole.

[mike5150]

He is probably scared or in shock that he is going to be a father

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he is terrified. You have a lot of power over his future right now.

[Anonymous]

hes probably scared shitless and doesn't know what to say

[harveykinkle]

Was it planned in any way? He might be scared.