Girls don't have it easier. They are more empathetic and thus aren't built for handling rejection...like we are supposed to be. Girls want to feel special, being ignored by her crush is the opposite of that.
When a girl looks at a guy and he laughs and walks away, that's rejecting her. When a girl talks loud and annoys other girls just to get your attention and the guy doesn't make a move, that's rejecting her and now she has to deal with other girls annoyed with her. When a girl is a little more aggressive and hints she wants to hang out and a guy pretends not to get it, that is devastation to the girl. No one has it easier. Both sexes half to meet each other half way and help each other out along the way.
Yeah rejection sucks but there are ways for us to push through it. I was blown out horribly in public places 4 or 5 times before a girl finally went on a date with me. If we learn, laugh it off and wear it as a badge of honor eventually we learn from our experience. Then and only then...everyone wins.
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It's really pointless trying to explain this to a woman. They have no idea because they've never experienced it.
One woman actually did try living as a man for a year - a lesbian feminist named "Norah Vincent" wrote a book about her experiences: link Eventually it drove her into depression and she was sectioned. Living as a man for only a year drove her to the nuthouse. Afterwards she said that she had never been more happy to be a woman, and that she saw it as a privilege.
Everyone DOES get rejected in some way. Girls are some of the worst at rejecting each other. And guys do put too much emphasis on being rejected when asking a girl out. Asking a girl out and being rejected is a far lesser blow than being with someone in a LTR and then getting dumped. Stop wearing your feelings out on your sleeve.
Who says they have it easier? My cousin worked 14 - 16 hour days on wall street because she knew she was ugly and she knew she would not be able to find a boyfriend unless she was rich or he was just as ugly as her. She's also a pathological liar so I don't feel sorry for her.
Well put yourself in a woman shoes, most women aren't seeking just sex in the beginning, they really want someone who they can share their love and be loved. In that sense, its almost as rare as a guy getting laid. Same thing... different sense.
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I really agree with this. Spoke about it with my house mates and it is so true that at our age a guy will entertain and less attractive girl but the girl won't give the less attractive guy the time of day.
But I guess its just prospective. Like imagine how it would feel to be one girl in a group of friends who never gets asked out and then when she asks a guy gets rejected or called a slut.
Swings and roundabouts really.Firstly, I saw your pics, and you don't seem ugly at all. You need to get rid of your inferiority complex, only then will you succeed at dating. Remember, if you yourself feel that you're ugly, then how can a woman find you attractive?
With respect to your question, I agree that women have it a lot easier than men while getting dates, but they have their own share of problems too. For example, most men date women just to have sex, whereas women expect a relationship. In such cases, the women are left emotionally hurt when the men let go of them after having sex.
What I'd like to say is, both men and women have different kinds of problems when it comes to dating and relationships. 'Rejection' is a problem for men, and similarly women have their own issues to deal with.My man I couldn't said it better myself. Women love and I love to play the victim cared, the gender card and love to hear themselves talk. I too get mad when I hear women say things like man up but funny thing is I never hear woman up? Also women are believed to be the weaker sex if a man slugs a woman its quick throw his ass in jail even if it was self defense, but if a woman slugs a man every will says he must of deserved it?
The most successful people in life are the ones that learn from rejection, keep their spirits up after rejection and the ones that move forward and live in the present. Be one of those people.
Women have it easier attaining sexual partners. Because of this they have a tougher time sorting through all the dudes that'll say anything to have sex.
They don't have it easier in dating.
The only people who think that, are some very confused and angry male virgins.for them they are probably mainly frustrated on just being able to get the right kind of guy or problems while in the relationship
I think when women complain in the dating game is because she can't get a date with the guy she wants.
Girls don't have it easier
We have to put more effort in our fucking appearance.
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