He really hurt me at Easter as we talked on the phone, setting up a day to meet but then canceled and never contacted me to set up another date.
I went back to where I live and gave him the silent treatment for a month before composing an emailing, telling him how I felt - how I was attracted to him but just view him as a good friend, how he hurt me at Easter and how I would appreciate it if he would respond back so I knew how he felt and we could resume our friendship like we had before Christmas.
Have not heard a thing from him and it's been over two weeks. He's very shy but my reaction is he's scared and he's just taking the chicken way out. I know people will tell me "well his silence IS his answer to you" but I just wish he'd tell me SOMEthing! Even if he'd tell me "go to hell" I'd be fine with that - just say SOMEthing - I can take it. Why do men do this? It really ticks me off!
I'm thinking of giving him a call this weekend (not leave a message if I just get his machine; just see if he's home). Do you think that's a good idea or just continue waiting?
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