Will you ask her out again if she rejected you once?

[Anonymous]

Guys, will you ask a girl out again on Valentine's day if she rejected you once but you think she might accept you this time? And girls, what will be your reaction if a guy asks you out on Valentine's day if you have already rejected him before? And lets say you haven't talked even once after the rejection then how will you approach this?

[martyfellow]

Why not? If you liked her enough to ask her out once, why not ask her again, especially if you know she's unattached?

Maybe she didn't know you then, and she likes you better now..

What is she going to do, bite you? Well, hopefully...

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer. My story is that we met each other in university as we had same class. We started studying together and spent most of the time together. We became really close friends but I always liked her more than that.So after 2-3 months I told her how I feel. It didn't ended well and we never spoke after that because she didn't wanted to.I still feel for her and want to talk to her again as a friend but I am afraid to approach her thinking she might not get upset.

[martyfellow]

If she gets upset she is a Barbie. You're willing not to pressure her for anything romantic; what more could she ask for?

Go after her. if she's worthwhile, she'll take your continued attention as a compliment.

[Asker]

Sure, I will.I have one more question that during this time when were not talking to each other she never used to look at me like I don't exist but recently I saw her noticing me but she looked away when she saw me looking at her. It happened like twice.I was talking to a friend of mine and she was talking to her's and they were standing in front of us but at distance. She turned around and looked at me for few seconds and I kept looking straight but I saw her doing that.So,is there a chance?

[martyfellow]

Yes; she probably knows you noticed her looking at you and she is curious if you still want to get to know her better.

No guarantees here, just because she's a little curious...

[Asker]

Hmm. I already know her better since we have been close friends and shared everything about what we like and our past and stuff. But I see what you mean here. Do you think being straight upfront with her will be a good idea or should I just keep it limited till "Hey, what's up"?

[martyfellow]

I'd test her a little..flatter her on her outfit or something warm like that, see how she respods.

[Asker]

Hmm. Since we haven't spoken in months so do you think it will be a good idea.Anyways even if it's not I will do it anyways.What worse can it go?lol Right?

[martyfellow]

Right, you really don't have anything to lose. She might be embarrassed to admit she has changed her mind about you, so you have to be the aggressor a little here.

In this sort of situation, a playful slap on the behind is decisive!

[Asker]

I see! Well let's just keep it till complimenting her outfit.lol

Idk when I will see her again and even if I do will I get the chance to talk to her. If I do I will grab it and say what I have to.

Thanks for your help bro. I really appreciate it.

[WizeGuy2350]

If a woman turns me down for a date, I don't ask her out again. If she wasn't interested before, why would she suddenly be interested now? I'm looking for a woman who is interested in me from day one.