Do guys actually like sweet girls?

[Anonymous]

I'm a sensitive, caring type of girl

My style also reflects it, I usually like delicate girly outfits, in baby pink and cute stuff..
I don't think I'm kind of "sexy" like other girls are, I have a thinner body and don't really have the curves of other girls... Sometimes I think if boys miss it...

I noticed that if I'm the boy I like I turn into a submissive mode, I like to have someone to protect me.. but that's just how I am. I like to do silly things as cooking for him, doing massages.. I have this need of taking care of someone I love.. I don't really know but I think that many boys don't really like it, am I right?

In the past I used to like some boys that really like the "rebel"/"mature looking" type of girl.. I felt really sad about that because I can't change who I am.. )= ..

(I am not clingy ok? haha I actually respect a lot other people's space (= )

[sweetsteel15]

I have no doubt that there are guys that would love to have someone like you. But make sure you can stand up for yourself if the situation called for it.

I'm the same as you for the most part. I'm a very sweet person and I love being girly and wear cute things. And when I find a guy I would want to spend the rest of my life, I would spoil the hell out of him. Women are nurturing anyhow :P I use to be overly submissive and people often took advantage of my kindness. I eventually started putting my foot down.

My advice for you would be:
1: Don't ever thing you'd need to change yourself for anyone. You're perfect the way you are.
2: Make sure to stand up for yourself. Don't be afraid to use some dominance (I'm sure guys would find this attractive, and your self confidence will most likely start going up)

Don't worry about guys not liking how you are :) You seem like a wonderful person and I have no doubt that guys long for a girl like you.

[sweetsteel15]

Think* Dang autocorrect.

[Asker]

Thank you!! For sure i'll take your advices (=

[sweetsteel15]

No problem :) Good luck and be careful!! :P

[pr3ttybr0wn]

the thing about sweet submissive girls is that they do it with every guy so it ends up not being special. its almost similar to how slutty girls sleep with every guy so their pussy isn't special. from my observations and experiences, guys prefer a girl who becomes sweet and submissive to only them. like maybe she's a rebellious type with everyone else but once she gets close to him then she's sweet. but being sweet and caretaking by nature just opens u up to being used and taken advantage of

[Asker]

I am not doing all these things with every guy I like, mostly because I do not date many guys, I am really careful while choosing people in a romantic way.. and well.. I can't change it.. that's who I am.. )= .. I really hope there's someone out there that is not going to just "use" me as you say

[ThisAndThat]

I'm a oldie so I don't know that you really want my opinion. But I was young once so I'll give it anyway. Yes girls that are sweet girls and you do sound like you are a very sweet girl. Let me tell you, my Mom, I can not tell you how bad I miss her, no words can. She was the sweetest person I'll ever know and there wasn't anybody who ever met her who didn't love my Mom. She had that type of effect on people including and especially me. her son. It's been almost 2 years now and I never get over losing her. But my Mom had that affect and if you want to be loved by everyone, don't worry so much about what boys think, be as sweet as you can. And yes boys like sweet girls too by the way.

[Asker]

For sure she was a wonderful person, I wish you the best, thank you a lot.

[thetundrawolf]

I am sorry for your loss.

[ThisAndThat]

My pleasure and thank you both.

[thetundrawolf]

I would love it. I want to be loved, to be cared for. I need a woman to lean on. Someone who cooks for me, massages my body, etc. (I am not hitting on you) So no, actually, I think that that's awesome. I am not in the norm though, I would want a girl I sincerely loved to be entwined with my life, I would not want "Space" except during times of extreme stress and turmoil, etc.

And in turn yes, I would want to protect you, a precious person who gave me so much of herself. I used to like those kind of girls, rebels/pretty/superficial but now that I am older I have matured, and see the value in a good woman.

[Asker]

Thank you for you comment, that makes me think that maybe I need a more mature partner, again, thanks!

[Anonymous]

here's the type of girl i want (copied from another question i answered)
she'll be someone who's beautiful on the inside as on the outside she'll be sweet, loving, heartwarming, gentle, kind, sensitive, clingy, desperate for the right guy, decent, intelligent, good sense of humor, virgin, desires sex and will have it with me right away and with only me, she will make ALL the first moves and including she will be the one who asked me out cause i will never do that, she'll let me and want me to "explore" her body and mind and tell me what she wants, not be trashy and not want kids, not use me for or think I'm for money, she'll be very happy and satisfied having me in her life, I'd be her "dream guy", she'll have the same or similar love and sex fantasies and she will marry me ASAP and keep me, and I'd get along with her, she'll be very charming and a total joy to be with.
does that answer your question?

[Jonny_]

Yep I like girly girls... I don't think girls have to have a certain 'attitude' or 'personality' to be 'sexy'... Some girls can be sexy as hell just being themselves, especially if they just have that look. Think of the sexiest celebrity you can think of, and then think of them being sweet etc... would that make them less sexy? Because for me it sure as hell wouldn't.

[Asker]

Thank you! That makes me feel more calm haha

[baseballbandfreak27]

Well as long they are not clingy I wouldn't mind dating a girl like you :)

[Asker]

thank you (=

[Shyguy_1988]

I like sweet, happy bubbly girls with a postive outlook on life. Always a plessure to be around.

[Asker]

thank you (:

[Anonymous]

You're the only type of girl I'm willing to date.

[Settingemstraight]

I like you already.

[Asker]

haha thank you (=