Does a guy need six pack abs to be physically attractive?
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Girls: Do you think A guy needs to have 6 pack abs to be attractive?
Just depends on the girl. Mine thinks abs are gross, but she dated a couple kids with 6-packs, it wasn't a deal breaker. She said her ideal body type is like Kevin James, just a little taller. Yes, THAT Kevin James. She also likes receding hairlines. But I don't have either of those things. Looks aren't as high on the priority list with girls. Sure, they like eye candy as much as anyone, but a lot of girls aren't as blinded by appearances as a lot of us guys are. There's a girl at my gym, pretty cute, not a knockout, but definitely attractive. Never spoken to her, but she has a very sweet aura about her, seems to be a teacher, she looks like she's correcting papers while she walks on the treadmill. Just looks like a good solid catch for your average guy. Saw her husband one time during new year's resolution week at the gym, and homeboy was a good 280 lbs if I had to guess. Big dude, but had a big gut and didn't look like he worked out. Looked blue collar too, he didn't strike me as a rich dude with a trophy wife, just an average Joe. Don't get discouraged, its not as bad as you think.
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Girls like 6 packs, women like men in physical shape all over. You can have a 6 pack and do very little to earn it if you are thin. I've not had a 6 pack since I was about 18 and I can tell you that has not damaged my chances with women. Hell I'd say right now with muscle and a bit of chub is quite ideal as I've got strength and muscle but I'm great for cuddling.There are girls who fancy fat men and there are girls who fancy fit men. Much like a fetish for feet some love some hate and some don't care. A fun thing to remember next time you see a girl swooning for abs, abs are core muscle related and core muscles help you fart so she is swooning over his farting prowess.
absolutely not. it's a cool physical feature that I appreciate, but it has to come with other great features and characteristics (butts, chest, thighs, nice face) are features I like, and a fun personality is definitely most desirable. I like guys based on their entire (was going to say package, but hehe) set of attractive features, the whole equation. Butts and lips actually do a lot for me in the just for sex department though. For relationships, I want a guy to be fit and care about his health and his looks to a point where he's presentable, hygienic and trying to be approachable at some level, but abs aren't a requirement. Matter of fact, I have been attracted to men with a little pudge in part because the pudge works well for them! - as long as they have other characteristics I like, which there are tons, I'm not worried about toning. If a guy tones a bit though, it would factor into how attractive he is, and seeing my boyfriend tone works for him... so hot.
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My first crush was fat, but I just liked him. I don't mind that much if there aren't abs as long as the face is nice.Or my neighbour's boyfriend has a bit of a belly but there's just something people like about his face and personality. But of course some nice abs are a plus for me.I mean they're nice to look at haha. But I wouldn't care if I liked the guy, because I know what it's like to be judged by the appearance and not get a lot of action, so for me the personality has a big role too, apart from the face.
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I dont care about weight, I look for in a guy would be how he treated. He could be the hottest guy in the world but if he would treat me like crap, I wouldn't be with him. But if a guy was over weight and treat me well I would be with him, what I'm saying is I would only go out with a guy who treats me well. Also the eyes are something else I go for if he has a kind eye then I would trust a guy more. And a lot of us girls say no because we are trying to protect ourselfs from heartbreak.
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Here's the way I see it.
Don't hold people to standards that yourself aren't willing to achieve.
For example, don't look for a girl with a really hot body if you yourself don't have one.
For example, let's say you're fat, and you want a girl to look at you for the nice guy you are. That's perfectly fine. But on the flip side, you should be ready to date a fat girl and also look at her for her heart.
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No...not at all...my BF has no muscle definition in his belly...in fact that's where he stores a lot of fat...I actually have good muscle definition on my stomach and like how it looks...I worked hard for that!
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No. I personally have two overweight casual friends who got hot women. How, I do not know, but it happened.
One is literally obese--like, he needs to lose 100 pounds to get into good shape, but he somehow met a cute, fit blonde girl and they married. Of course, now they're approaching year two or three, and she's not such a happy camper anymore, nor so fit.
The other fellow used to be something of a bodybuilder, but he's packed on some pounds, needs to lose at least 20 pounds. Yet he's now engaged to a HOT Chinese/Vietnamese girl who seems to adore him. -
A beautiful face is something I go after, especially eyes and smile. To be honest I'm not a huge fan of six pack I have always been more into guys with big thighs.. So six packs aren't really my thing. I don't hate them, but I don't look for guys with them either. I think it's far more important that the guy is comfortable in his own skin. This is something find very attractive. No matter how you look embrace it, people will love you for it. I sure know I would.
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Definitely not. All the guys I have ever liked or dated never had abs I swear! And not trying to sound cocky but im a fairly attractive girl. My mom is really beautiful and thin and her bf is fat, when she met him he wasn't as big as he is now but he still was sort of, and I like guys that arnt to muscular I hink it looks gross tbh. id rather have a little etra meat on him then him be really skinny and muscular
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hahahahahaha no.
in fact, a sixpack can already be too much for me sometimes. Like, in shape is always a nice bonus, and the adonis-muscle-v-shape can be very hot. But going below 9% bodyfat is just over the top in my opinion. Honestly, as long as you're confident, happy and smart (and yes, I'll admit it for my shallow self: not too overweight) there's a very good chance I will think you're the most attractive person in the room. -
Hell no , I know a lot of guys who are the most attractive guys ever and there don't have a six pack at all. I know most girls love the whole 6 pack and muscles , but some girls in the world love the genuine guys who don't have that. The whole muscles and 6 pack is just a bonus
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He doesn't need to have one but for me a requirement is that it's at least flat. Guys i've dated if they aren't in ottermode they have a 6, current rarity has an 8. https://p.twimg.com/A1iXEuuCAAAo2SF.jpg:large
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Definitely not.
I find some muscular guys attractive, I find some lanky guys attractive, I find some rounded guys attractive.
I honestly don't think it matters, in the slightest. -
Deff not. Dont care about that at all. To me im happy if he doesn't have it. That not important to me.
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Absolutely not. My boyfriend doesn't have a six pack at all. I'm not even that turned on by them anymore
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Of course he has too. I don't believe any girl or women says she hates
6 pack abs. If a woman went on two blind dates the first one was a guy who had a beer gut and the second had 6 pack abs I'll bet she'll choose the second one. Even if the guy with the beer gut had a better personalty. -
no. I think guys who have very defined abs are not so attractive.
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Nope, my bf doesn't have one and I still think he's extremely attractive :)
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Not at all. Even though I do like muscles, there is nothing wrong with a soft stomach :)
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buy her a 6 pack beer and she'll find you attractive.
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I think ripped muscles goes along the same line of thought as big boobs.
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No, he doesn't NEED them but they are nice to look at. Girls usually don't like touching guys that are too muscular.
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I like toned guys and skinny guys.
Toned not abs/biceps/muscular toned just fit enough that's all.
I dont like abs either, all the working out shit that is going around right now on social medial are for superficial and shallow purposes. Fuuuuck all that.
I like a guy who runs, who is active and dynamic, not a gym rat who likes to show off and obssesed about his looks and diet. NO! -
No. I'm not terribly into abs myself. Not major ones anyways
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