Girls: What are signs a girl regrets rejecting you?

[kalrodkal]

Girls: What are signs a girl regrets rejecting you?

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Regrets rejecting. Not is rejecting

[Anonymous]

Yup. I notice people don't get questions or don't pay attention to the question. Sad !
Anyway. I might have some expertise to help you a bit. I was rejected by 2 girls. I was probably to blunt about it. One told to her friend, that told a friend, that... and it got to me after months that she was actually interested. The other one, smth similar.
I don't think she will tell you that she made a mistake or freaked out about it. NEVER.
notice if there are any behavior changes compared to before you asked her. Is she avoiding you in a painful way. Because pain is the word. She will act HURT ! "my god, was i stupid for not saying yes".
So she will look like her whole world collapsed around her. She'll be lifeless. She will try to avoid you as much as possible to stop the pain, but at the same time she'll try to somehow get you to notice her. She'd keep close, but act like you aren't there. She might talk to your friends, even if you are there. She will talk in short sentences and NEVER look at you. She would look at you obsessively when you can't see her, trying to figure out "is he still into me or i completely blew it?"
The thought that she made a mistake will eat her from the inside but don't expect her to come around and be like "hey, yeah, you know about that movie you asked me to go to, and i said no? Well i actually wanted to say yes!". She realizes how silly it might sound so she won't do it.
This pain "stage" usually lasts about 2 weeks. Then she will calm down a bit. She might even start to gradually become herself again.
But what happened though? Confessed or asked her out?
If you have that feeling she was actually into you but freaked out, you only have to let her know you'd still want to go to the movies with her. Let her know you haven't moved on YET. That should help her snap out of it.

[ZEDA_X]

hmm. interesting.

What are signs a guy does?

[Opinion Owner]

@ZEDA_X
Interesting meaning... that i am somehow right? What i said was for shy girls or girls that don't like to show their feelings. These people are most likely to reject you even if they like you.

Signs a guy regrets. probably somewhere along these same lines if he is usually shy. He will never let you know he regrets and at first will start to act differently, because he needs to "walk that walk" and pretend he isn't into you, which will be extremely hard to do.
If you keep around and don't ignore him after you get rejected, it's going to be ok.

[Astrolux]

Would she make eye contact more or be more friendly? I mean I am in the situation. If rejection was rejection wouldn't she totally ignore me. This girl does look depressed

[Opinion Owner]

@Astrolux
Hi, sorry for replying so late. I can tell from my experience with this girl, but it might not be the same with all.
She was avoiding being anywhere near me for as much as possible, walk in front or behind, but never next to me. This was after she rejected me.
She was, however, watching from the distance. I can still remember now, after years have passed, that she would literally stop in the middle of what she was doing and look at me. It was SO obvious that she was longing for something, but she did not have the guts to say it.
Eye contact. No, not that much to be honest. She was interacting indirectly: my friends or people around me instead; act as I was a ghost. Could feel she was hoping I'd say something.

It might sound easy from my side, because I was feeling it in my bones, it was obvious. There might be instances when the girl is actually right and a no should be taken as a no. It's just up to the rejected to figure out what's the scenario he/she is in.

[Opinion Owner]

@Astrolux

Do not even remember when this was posted, so it might be a while, but I do hope you managed to work this out with the girl.
I know it was hurting me as hell, seeing all those things, but knowing I cannot say anything because she rejected me.
I was saying she was looking depressed because this was probably eating her on the inside just as much as it did me.
If she was friendlier... not sure how to explain it. No, because she wasn't interacting with me, she was actually a bit more ignoring, but she seemed to pay more attention from the distance (remember I said, she would literally stop and stare), she seemed to care what happens with me.

[ryanontario]

maybe still makes an effort to make herself available and still talks to you. but would have to maintain some presence or something along that line if she regrets us not dating. if she like just disappears and never contacts me or is nowhere to be found I doubt she is missing me much

[Anonymous]

She will not reach out to you (not text if you gave her your number), or if you are already texting her she will either give very short responses or not respond at all.
If she likes you as a friend but isn't interested in pursuing it further, then she will still be friendly and talk to you, but if she knows you are trying to make a move she might emphasize the fact that you are friends and want to stay friends.
If she is trying to let you down gently it might be hard to tell because she won't flat out ignore you, but maybe she will refuse to hang out with you alone- so she will bring a friend along, or if you ask her out somewhere she'll suggest it become a big group outing.

[kalrodkal]

I am talking about regretting rejecting

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I'm sorry! I misread the question.
If a girl REGRETS rejecting you, she might make an attempt to reconnect. Not necesarily ask you out, but perhaps be overly friendly when she sees you, or start to approach you more. If she is bold she might come out and say that she's changed her mind and is willing to give it a shot, but it is more likely that she will try an approach that is not as forward, since she might be embarresed, or worried that you already moved on. If she really has changed her mind about you, she will start flirting with you more, but again she will probably proceed with caution since she is not sure how you will react.

[OptimusPrime2017]

I would just no longer give a shit if someone that rejected me before now becomes interested in me, as I don't want anything to do with that person. After a year or two, my way of moving on is ignoring them, to avoid any misunderstandings. For me, feelings for someone isn't worth it anymore. Been there, done that.

[ghostbunnywhite]

Damn.. That happen to me, now, I understand why she wanted us to be still a best friend, but I don't understand why she didn't want to date with me again after we break ups? She said having a new boyfriend and she love him but still tbh very quick to respond to me when I text her..

[ElasticBali]

When I regret rejecting somebody's advances, I make it a point to talk to them/text them again. I won't necessarily come and out and apologize, but I will crack jokes with them and show them that I do thoroughly enjoy their company and I want them around.

[Astrolux]

How has this worked for you what happened?

[DarkAgent]

A regular guy would see through that as you only being needy for attention.

[Flower7]

If she starts contacting you or talking to you more.

[Pinay_ako]

• She DMs you out of the blue/initiates contact
• She finds ways to speak to you
• She will try to get your attention
• She will ask you out this time

[Tetroy]

Only if she plainly tells me she regrets it! Most guys are like this (at least my friends are) where we accept her judgement and won't try to object it! I take her wishes and the only thing to overrule her rejection would be to take it back!

[chriss]

she will come back to you and ask you out.

if she doesn't do any off this then she just likes you as a friend or just using you for something.

[AriadneSky]

if she asks him out, or says' i regret rejecting you'

[BoySittingOnTheMoon]

Never asked a girl to date me but maybe if she's staring me?

[thatssuppy190]

Girls dont regret their decisions, only if he becomes rich and famous all of a sudden

[Anonymous]

She constantly tries to reach out, doesn't back off

[scooogy]

like throwing glances?

[Anonymous]

Ze Shrug. Shouldn't have rejected in the first place

[Opinion Owner]

For me: If I am rejected, that is it, her one and only chance. She better bring her A game if she wants a second chance.

[supercutebutt]

Pink, puffy nipples.

[violet2]

she tries to reconnect with you

[Anonymous]

you can't unless she tells you

[lumberman9]

Her showing behavior

[Anonymous Asker]

i kind of just ignored her when i see her in school and its not bc i dislike her, i just feel hurt. and I've notice she kinda just tries to be present and near whenever i see her at school, we go to the same college. like i dont want her to think that i hate her, should i say something?

[lumberman9]

Yes it would be good for you to talk to her if you're ready to fix the issue