myTakes: Flirting

One of the weird aspects of hearing guys here talk about their struggles with dating is that almost none of them seem to know how to flirt. It seems like every time a guy talks about his issues, everything is super...

Flirting is a way of expressing interest in someone and showing that you find them attractive. Here are a few tips for flirting effectively: Be confident: Confidence is attractive, so try to relax and be yourself. Try...

I have to express this and I can only speak on the male pov (specifically my pov). When I'm online and dm'ing (direct messaging) I feel like it's a job interview or pulling teeth. It feels like I'm asking a bunch of...

There was a post in this group asking if the members were oblivious to flirting at any point of their lives. Here's my take on that. There may have been many oblivious occasions in my life which I still don't know they...

As a man, it's always been hard to catch onto a woman's actions and behavior. I know it, we all know it, because we've all been there. You meet a woman who you're instantly into, you spend days if not weeks building up...

I wrote this for people that want to improve some aspects of their personality instead of improving looks so you can still improve on relationships without having to improve your looks. 1. Be clear about your intentions...

1. They will have you thinking that everything that they say is what they actually mean but they don’t 2. Never talk to someone that is talking to someone else. Regardless of if they’re single and talking to someone or...

1. Be confident . At the root of all comedians, actors, talk show hosts and more is their confidents and their smoothness. A few ways to do this is to be 1 energy level higher everyone else, make more expansive gestures,...

They both tolerate anything to obtain attraction from the opposite sex. They both put down their gender to make themselves look better. There are also people who defend simps and pick me girls in the same way. They...

90% of the time, it worked every time. And it's quite simple actually. Assume that girls are attracted to guys naturally to a certain degree just because of being a boy, so your job isn't to pursue them but to make it...

Dude, have you ever seen a cutie, or any gal look directly at you for a few seconds when you're shopping, at school, On the street, waiting for a light, at a party or almost A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E? Well I know you all have you...

Reciting poetry to girls is how I got all of my dates since I started doing it. It's incredibly effective, and has a higher success-rate with my experience than using pick-up lines. People have been doing it for centuries...

Men need to be strong, be winners, in order to deserve anything. I fully believe that. I believe self esteem is critical for taking action as men and winning. I don't believe men or women inherently deserve anything, if...

The only thing that you need for flirting is very simple, it's just a matter of tactics. You place yourself physically nearby and start commenting about whatever random thing is happening on the place, call it weather...

By now I guess you may have seen the past questions I've asked about a coworker who vents to me and stuff. Well, Turns out there is more to stuff than what she's telling me. Turns out she has revealed very personal info...

Girls can sometimes be unsure of whether a guy is flirting or just being friendly. This Take is intended to provide a few pointers to the girls who sometimes find themselves puzzling over a guy's intent. The focus will be...

It's impossible to cover flirting in every possible dimension, but I thought I'd give a few pointers to those who aren't completely comfortable with it. The focus here is on flirting in real life, not online and does not...

I noticed that there are a quite a number of pictures for this site http://bodylanguageproject.com/ that are all hidden when you go on but show up on google searches so I decided to highlight nineteen pictures and spark...

1 Accept it In western society at this point in History women are the choosers. They often are rude, hostile or mocking in rejection but some guys cross a line and deserve it. Maybe you didn't, but women are often...

This shouldn't take too long. Boys. Fellas. Guys. If she does not text you first, she is not interested in you and is just being friendly. Now, is that a generalization? Yes. Are we talking about literally. each. and....