I slept with my best guy friend and he has a girlfriend. Please help!
Last weekend, I got drunk with my friend, which we've done in the past and nothing has happened. However, this time, we were flirting and we started making out. It went as far as taking my shirt off before he stopped and told me that he couldn't continue because he had a girlfriend. We spent about an hour talking everything over, and he confessed that even though he wished he did, he didn't regret kissing me. Finally, we started kissing again and it ended up with us having sex. Then, he came over the next day and spent the entire day with me cuddling and stuff and that evening, we slept together again. During our conversation, he told me that he wasn't sure who he wanted because he has been with his girlfriend so awhile now, but he has been away from her recently because they go to different schools. He also told me that he wanted to be with us equally, and that he did not want me to be the
"girl on the side" or a friend with benefits. He also said that if he did break up with her that he wanted to do it gradually rather than tell her that he cheated on her, so it hopefully won't hurt her as badly, but now looking back on it, I'm really scared that he will pick to be with her. I've liked him for quite awhile now, and I never wanted this to happen because I didn't want his relationship to fall apart because of me. I need some advice on what to say to him or what you think is really on his mind because either way, someone is going to be really hurt.
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