Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material

Starfishlover

This myTake is for females but I will be posting "Why girls don't respect you" in the next series.


If you are easily offended, please click away. But I do believe that this might give you insight in your quest for a respectful relationship.


Reason 1: You probably dress like a whore!


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material.


It pains me that as a woman, I would need to say this and slut shame others. But believe me I am not. I am just pointing out the obvious because believe it or not, other people have this perception about you too.You can go off and rant and rave about how guys shouldn't think of you like that until you are blue in the face, I am sorry but they will.


I know this is sexy and you feel the need to show off your good assets because, I don't know. Maybe you haven't developed life skills yet. There is nothing wrong with dressing sexy, but leave some things to the imagination. Choose one asset and stick with it. I have dangerous curves too. I have huge bazookas, twerkable ass, long legs. But I want guys to see me for who I am and what I have to offer.


And yes, I am single. I am single because I am a chooser and frankly, I haven't met anyone up to my standards yet. Reason for that is going to be in my next take.


Reason 2: You talk about stupid things and you act stupid!


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


When 9 times out of 10, you probably aren't stupid. With information right at our fingertips, you can easily search for information. So there is no excuse to act stupid. Knowledge is power, girls.


Reason 3: You are too thirsty


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


I have seen girls show their vagina's here and read up on how a girl sucked off a guy at a party in front of people. If you like your behaviour and feel good about it, then I don't want to see you complaining about how you can't get a boyfriend or get a guy to take you seriously.


Now how can we counteract that?


1. Have respect for yourself


You need to have lots and lots of self respect as a woman. Because we aren't out of the dark ages yet believe it or not. There are a lot of men that think we are nothing but cum-dumpsters. There is a fine line between subtle sexy to "just have sex with me and throw me half naked in a ditch but alive" sexy.


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


2. Be intelligent and well spoken


Go on, have an opinion and don't be afraid to voice it. If you feel something is wrong or you don't like something, say it. Don't be a sheep, be a leader. Take Emma Watson for example. She even gives ME wood.


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


3. Be ambitious, funny and courageous


Life isn't just about picking up men and flashing your boobs here and there. Again if this makes you happy, more power to you. But try and focus on how to get impressive skill sets. I have been told that I am drop dead gorgeous all the time. I don't mean to be a chode but I do get told that nearly every day. They know I am a black belt in karate, I have a degree and would like to pursue another one, a great job, and create my own animation plus more.


Be daring and do something adventurous.


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


4. Be competitive, strong and stand up for your rights


I have to say that Ronda Rousey is my new hero. A lot of girls have shamed her for being too masculine. Her response?



I have this one term for the kind of woman my mother raised me to not be, and I call it a do nothing bitch. A DNB. The kind of chick that just tries to be pretty and be taken care of by someone else. That’s why I think it’s hilarious if my body looks masculine or something like that. Listen, just because my body was developed for a purpose other than fucking millionaires doesn’t mean it’s masculine. I think it’s femininely badass as fuck because there’s not a single muscle on my body that isn’t for a purpose, because I’m not a do nothing bitch. - Ronda Rousey



This girl can be my friend.


So don't be a "Do nothing bitch". Be a "Badass bitch"


Why guys don't respect you or want you as girlfriend material


This chick will probably MAKE men respect her.


So there you have it. Hopefully you enjoyed myTake. If you haven't, ah well.

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