A response to: How To Be a Real Man by Anonymous
Because it seems like women are always telling men how to "be" but turn violent if you even attempt to suggest how they should "be," here's a giant middle finger to those women and a Real Man's guide on "how to be a Real Woman."
1. A real woman acts like an adult and not a spoiled child.
Acting like an entitled spoiled brat may work for a pretty teen girl who has everything handed to her and is never told the word NO. But a woman doesn't expect people to treat her special just because "she's a girl". She doesn't throw hissy fits or tantrums when she doesn't get her way, She doesn't use manipulation and pity to get what she wants, and she doesn't use passive aggressive punishment to teach her partner a lesson when he doesn't bow to her demands. (*Nor would she "demand" in the first place.)
2. A woman values her health and takes pride in her appearance.
Being healthy is something men are often criticized for and telling a man to lose weight or get in shape is not considered an offense... But even attempting to suggest this to a female would likely have a man's life destroyed. A real woman doesn't excuse being overweight (or under weight) with lies and campaigns trying to force people to simply accept it.
She also doesn't walk around with her ass, breast, or vagina hanging out of her clothes, crammed into skin tight clothes, or are visible through see-thru clothes, essentially trying to show as much skin as possible to get any attention she can because she knows that overt sexual attention is not real attention, and that class and self-respect is much more attractive than being a cheap peep show.
She has more to offer the world than her sexual parts, therefore doesn't need to put them on display as her only valuable assets.
3. A woman takes responsibility for her actions!!! (THIS IS A MAJOR ONE!)
When you turn 18, you become an adult who is more than capable of understanding her mistakes and your actions have consequences. Adopting a lifestyle of blaming the world or others for your actions, shows a high level of immaturity. At some point, you must learn that if you screw up, you've got to own that, and try to make it right, and then move on so you don't make the same mistakes over and over again, rather than blaming everything and everyone for things that are very much in your own control.
Just as men are held responsible for their actions by society, regardless of how incapable he may be to make proper decisions, women need to take responsibility as well as be held accountable for their actions. That means not using alcohol as an excuse for making bad choices, using "hormones" or "chemical imbalances" as an excuse for insane actions. You are a big girl... act like one.
4. A woman has real goals, dreams, and ambitions in life
Do not coast through your youth on looks and hope to simply trap a wealthy guy into "loving" you just before you hit 30.
She doesn't profit on a lack of morals and self respect. (Sex industry, Gold digger, etc.)
She will work hard and struggle to get the things she wants.
She will accomplish things without being handed them simply for being a female.
5. A woman knows her own worth
You don't need constant campaigns pushing "girl power", you don't need to be constantly reminded that you are "strong and independent" like a fragile child, or that you are "special just because you are a girl". You don't need your ego stroked or get empty pats on the back for simply being female. You don't need "quotas" and "affirmative action nonsense" because you are not fragile and weak, you know who you are and you don't feed into a victim complex.
6. A woman respects the men in her life
A strong woman doesn't blindly believe fabricated victim ideologies because she knows better.
She knows that men are not monsters and that the 1 in 4 statistic is complete garbage. She doesn't have to adhere to a false victim complex to get through life, because she knows that playing that role does NOT empower women, but actually hurts them.
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