1. Intelligent conversation
One of the things that turns me on most is the ability to enjoy a deep conversation. It can be be about anything from life, family, TV shows, cartoons, childhood, sorts etc... I like to be deep when I talk. I like to listen and I would like for my ideal mate to listen to me as well.
2. Loves to have fun
I love having fun and doing fun things. I would appreciate it if my mate does, too. I would love to go to an amusement park, bowling, mini golfing, laser tag, the zoo, or an arcade any day over a movie. Don't get me wrong, I love movies, but sometimes the cinema isn't the most fun thing. Damn that ball pit looks so fun.
3. Has good and classy fashion sense
Dressing up and feeling elegant is a wonderful feeling. So my mate should feel elegant and relaxed in whatever she decides to wear. Whether it's a dress and tights, a blouse and skirt with heels or flats, or jeans, t-shirt and sneakers, she should feel comfortable dressing however and feel confident and classy. For me one of my favorite colors is black. I feel like its a very elegant color yet very pleasing to the eyes.
4. Loves to be classy in public
I like confidence. I like someone who is comfortable being themselves and handle themselves with class and style. Someone who can dish out and take what comes at them. I like a lady that can handle herself and fight battles, but still be pleasant and graceful person. I like a woman who can stand up for herself and prove she don't need any help, but also I like one who can admit her faults and still be there for who she loves.
5. But can be freaky and intimate in private
Yes, sex is important too. But I put it last because it's the least important. I like a woman who isn't afraid to be confident and try new things as long as she and me are in agreement of whatever. I personally like to take turns switching between dominant and sub. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties and not just one. To me it's not some 50 Shades BS where the man inflicts punishment on the woman to get his rocks off. If you' want to try new things you should ask consent and be willing to experience both ends. Like with being tied up or handcuffed I would expect her and me to both enjoy it from both sides of the spectrum. or at least try it once if both of us agree, but if we don't then its okay we will move on and never discuss it again.
These are just my five ideals anyway. Some of you feel the same, some don't and that is okay. It's not about what everyone else thinks anyway; it's between you and your mate what you like and dislike. I enjoy these things because I want both parties to enjoy themselves and each other.
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