For Girls, How You Can Become Girlfriend Material!! :-)

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So there have been a lot of questions here on gag where girls are asking what we want in a girl or what do we look in a girl. So there are different guys who look for different things in a girl but most important thing every guy looks or should look in a girl.

So enjoy this short take from me... :D

For Girls, How You Can Become Girlfriend Material!! :-)

1.) You’re appreciative

If a woman is appreciative of the little thing a man does for her he will go to the ends of the earth for her. Always tell him you’ve noticed and appreciate the things he does, big and small.

2.) She likes herself

Men are generally attracted to women who are comfortable with themselves. He doesn’t want to have to boost your flagging ego every time you go out. When you say you feel fat or ugly a man can feel hurt if he thinks you’re beautiful.

3.) Independence

Although men love to feel they are needed and make a difference in their woman’s life they also want to feel she has other interests outside the relationship because then he can too. A girlfriend who is too dependent can quickly smother a man’s affections.

4.) Respect for men

Many women don’t respect men and they know it. They see them as overgrown boys ruled by their smallest parts. This is grossly unfair and a man will know if you’re tarring him with this brush. A good girlfriend will take time to get to know him as an individual and show as much respect as she would to anyone else.

5.) Clarity

Men hate mind games and being made to second guess what women want. He will see you as great girlfriend material if you’re clear and upfront about what you’re asking of him, what you need and things you want to do.

6.) Prowess

A man wants to be the alpha male in his partner’s life so he’ll look for a girlfriend who helps him feel like a strong and capable man. This applies in the bedroom and out. Every man wants to be told they’re the best lover you’ve ever had and the more you compliment him the better he will become.

7.) Approval

Men are not unique in their desire for approval but when it comes to intimate relationships it’s vitally important that you communicate your wants and needs through approval rather than criticism. Tell him what he does well and he’ll want to do more. When you criticise him you’re withdrawing approval and it can seriously undermine his desire to contribute to the relationship if he feels he can never please you.

8.) Equality

Although a man may come to want to pay for meals or take care of you at the dating stage, when they’re looking for a good mate, they’re looking for someone who won’t take advantage of their generosity.

9.) Openness

Men are attracted mostly to women who make them feel good about themselves and for that to happen a woman needs to be open and demonstrative with her feelings. Body language, smiling, laughing and words of appreciation will help a man see the potential in a relationship.

10.) You’re sexy

Remember sexy is an attitude not a body shape or outfit. The animal instinct in a man responds to the sensual and sexual energy you exude and what he is (often unconsciously) looking for is a woman who responds to him in a positive way because it makes him feel desirable.

For Girls, How You Can Become Girlfriend Material!! :-)
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