I don't think there is a woman alive who doesn't want to feel like she's sexy either for herself or in the eyes of others at some point in her life. What ignites that spark, gets you noticed, makes you attractive to others, makes you stand out above the rest, and turns up the volume?
First and foremost, above any and all hair, clothing, and make-up, one absolutely must have confidence. It doesn't matter if you've got on a ton of make-up and your boobs on display, if you don't feel confident in what you're doing, saying, wearing, how you're walking--no one is going to buy what you are selling. You have to believe that you are sexy and project that outwards into the world. Stand up straight, head forward, shoulders back. Own the room. People who usually smile are perceived as sexy or at least friendly as opposed to always having a sour looking unapproachable face. A smile naturally attracts people to you because they presume you are happy and welcoming which is a good thing when it comes to attraction.
When it comes to a sexy style, it should be no shock to you that skin is in when it comes to sexy, but more or everything all at once isn't necessarily the sexiest thing in the world. In fact showing "too much" skin tends to put you in the category of classless or easy, even if you aren't. Sometimes just showing a hint of something like a little leg, a little dip in the V-cut, a small square of your back, can be very alluring. It suggests more or some secret that is just being revealed slowly but surely.
This is why it is often advised that you show off one body part per outfit and no more. Why? Because when you show off your boobs, your back, your legs, your arms, there is no mystery left about you. You're just fully on display and being quite obvious in your need for attention just as person wearing a big bright neon jacket would be. Part of a sexy sultry attitude and way of dress is leaving a little bit to the imagination.
As far as hair goes, long short, doesn't matter. What tends to matter is if you keep your hair in good condition. Does it look healthy and well cut and styled and clean. With make-up, the more dramatic smokey looks work well for nighttime, and a clean dewy face either natural or with natural looking make-up work well for day. What doesn't tend to work is just overloading the face with 10lbs of make-up in a big old gawdy wild color glittery mess. You want your sexy to come from a reality that exists in you. You shouldn't be trying to bury who you are, but show your confidence, your smile, your beautiful self.
Don't be afraid to turn it up to eleven sometimes if you have the confidence to get there. Really pull out the lace, the sky high pumps, the long dangly earrings that touch your shoulders, the sheer top, the big hair, whatever it is that makes you feel amazing and sexy, because when you feel that, when you own that, it comes through to others.
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I love dressing up. Doesn't matter if its for me or others. It makes me feel good about myself. And thats what matters, so I dont care when people point out that I'm overdressed for something.
I love that.
The last dress is dreamy. =)
Those outfits are hit or miss.