I see a lot of posts on here were women are shaming men for things men literally have no control over.
I mean it's crazy, all the women (On here at least) are making men out to be the bad guys and we literally did... nothing.
Women need to understand you can't blame a man for something he cannot change and had nothing to do with, here are a few of those things.
Gender Roles
I see this topic so much on here, it's really starting to get annoying.
How can you blame a man for naturally being manly? Women talk about how they want a man and not some little boy, yet you complain when a man is being a man.
You hate all men because one man told you that you couldn't work at a specific place.
Nobody is going to make you do something because you're a woman, do you understand what liberty means? You're free to do whatever you want, so don't get mad at all men because you do things you don't want to do. If you don't want to cook for your man don't, he's not going to stab you for not cooking, but don't expect him to cook for you either. Besides if you're both arguing over who cooks you sound like kids anyway.
Slut shaming
Women blame men for slut shaming as if other women don't call them sluts, apparently it's only a word men can use. If you're so afraid of being slut shamed, then don't do slutty things, it's that simple.
You say its unfair men get so sleep around with every woman, and are praised for it.
That isn't true, these men are on child support, & these men have diseases. They are praised socially, but they have some serious health & mental problems.
Since you want these health problems go right ahead, sleep with every guy or girl in sight since you want to so badly. Also you're afraid to be called a slut by society when you could just... I don't know keep your sexual life to yourself? Nobody is going to find out how many people you sleep with if you don't tell them, keep it a secret. Don't blame men because you can't keep that to yourself.
"Men only want one thing"
Aren't these the same women blaming men for slut shaming?
Not all men only want sex. We are humans too, just like you.
We want relationships, we want to be married, we want kids, & we want to live a nice life just like you do. Saying all men want is sex is very ignorant. I can answer one question for you though, no man will take a woman on multiple dates without expecting sex at some point. That's the point of a date, so he can get to know you, and figure out if you're the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. That's the whole point.
So yes, if he takes you on dates, he is after sex at some point, that's the whole point.
but is that all he's after? Who knows? He does, ask him! Or you could just say no when he brings up the topic, like a normal person would do.
Makeup
"I don't care if you want me to wear it or not, i'm wearing it"
When a man asks you not to wear makeup it's something beautiful, it means he's interested in you, your natural looks, not what you want to look like. Also he's going to see you without it at some point so stop trying to hide your face
"I'm wearing it for myself"
why? because you want to look good if other people see you.
Stop being mad at a man for liking the natural version of you, its dumb.
You complain about a man not liking you for you, but when men try to find out who you really are you have a problem. Also how would you feel if men walked around with fake six packs in their shirts?
Just because they wanted to feel good about themselves?
•Just stop blaming men over things we have no control over, it's not my fault i'm a man.
•I'm very sorry for being a man, really.
•I'm sorry that some asshole said they didn't like your body, it's my fault apparently.
•I take responsibility for men making more than women, that's my fault.
•I'm sorry you got called a slut for taking your panties off in front of a group of boys.
•I'm sorry "gender roles" exist, when i was alive back in 1950 i should of told every guy to cook dinner and told the women they had to do hard labor, i'm sorry i didn't do that.
•I'm sorry that men find your body so attractive you aren't able to show it publicly.
•I'm sorry you can't take your top off in front of children and families.
What else are you blaming men for?
i'll apologize so you can feel better, and go do your nails afterwards.
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Ps
Not talking about all women, i obviously understand that not all women are the same just because one woman acts a certain way.
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