Girls - You Have No Excuses For Your Insecurity

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After reading the comments on this great mytake, girlsaskguys.com/girls-behavior/a47592-the-media-or-guys-are-not-responsible-for-your-insecurity?fp=true, I noticed some girls still blaming the media or others for their insecurities and rather than respond to them, I thought it better to write another take to add to it.

Girls - You Have No Excuses For Your Insecurity

Both men and women will see things around them and compare themselves to others or certain standards. That's normal, it happens. However there are two types of people. Those who become insecure and refuse to do anything about it because they blame others and those that choose to ignore it and get on with life. You have two options to choose, it is YOUR choice.

You cannot expect the media to babysit you and make you believe you're perfect. That's not how things work. You will always face rejection, not everyone is going to approve of you, you've got to learn to live with it.

Look at Rebel Wilson -

Girls - You Have No Excuses For Your Insecurity

You talk about seeing ads or pictures of models that put unfair pressure on you to have a certain body. Well what about her? Her entire career depends on the media. How many times do you think she was rejected for a role simply because they didn't like her appearance? How do you think it feels to be stereotyped and type cast based on your appearance? How do you think it feels to have people constantly looking at you, taking pictures of you, writing negative things about you...All while knowing that no, you don't fit the typical beauty standard? Feels daunting right? Well guess what? She probably couldn't care less and when she does care, she sues them and wins. Talk about successful.

What about Gina Rhinehart-

Girls - You Have No Excuses For Your Insecurity

She's one of the richest women in the world for those who don't know. Do you think she's crying at home because her face doesn't look a certain way or because she's getting wrinkles and doesn't have a bikini body? Do you think she's constantly comparing herself to 'hot' young models? SHE COULD BUY THESE 'HOT' YOUNG MODEL'S ENTIRE FAMILY AND EVERYTHING THEY OWN AND WILL EVER OWN.

So please insecure girls, learn to love yourselves and realize that your appearance does not define you. You don't need to live up to anyone's standards. Yes, you will be faced with things that will make you question yourself, however don't give in to them and blame them, respect yourself and block them out, you're worth so much more than that and the two women above are living proof of what can be achieved when someone gives a big up yours to beauty standards.

Girls - You Have No Excuses For Your Insecurity
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