Why is she acting crazy and what to do?

[Coffinspire]

So, women are crazy, we know we're crazy. It's not a secret. From a guys prospective though, it gets a little confusing. I've had numerous exes not know what to do when I'm acting a little nutty. It's like a deer in headlights. So guys, I'm going to do my best to help you through some of these tough moments, and she'll love you for it trust me!

1. She's yelling at you for something stupid or nothing

Yeah, we do that. First thing to ask youself before you start arguing (and making it worse on your part) is "Did something else happen?" There will be times when we have a bad day and then something little that you do will set us off, but to you it's out of the blue. This is usually the most common case, so if this happens to you just simply ask "Whats wrong?" Then she will probably originally say it's your fault, DON'T SAY ANYTHING, because then she will go on to say what really happened, and THATS IS WHEN you come in with the comforting words and eventually she'll realize what she did and will happen less in the future. Obviously, this sounds irrational and like too much work but again, we're crazy, we know this.

2. She starts crying and won't tell you what's wrong

Most of this can be due to hormones, I myself am guilty of this. Most guys will just leave the room until she feels better, but this is a horrible idea. It causes a lot of resentment and a feeling of abandonment. Instead, sitting there with her and helping her get through it with encouraging words is your best bet. She'll eventually come around and tell you all about it and then you're the hero! Helping her get through her troubles instead of leaving her to deal with it will make her feel like she can really count on you when she needs it.

3. Period time!

Okay, so we know we get a little extra crazy around this time of the month. We don't want to do anything except eat and watch movies all day. I've had exes completely stay away from me altogether. DON'T DO THAT! Sit and watch movies with her it's not difficult. And please understand that it feels like our organs are going to fall out of our vagina, have a little bit of understanding.

There you have it, that's about all the crazy I can pull out right now. I know this sounds like "too much work" but if you really want your relationship to work, these things will make a world of difference and create a stronger bond.

[inamorata]

Advice 1: Bend over and take it hoping she'll stop. If you object your sodomy, be ready to retaliation. How dare you? Didn't you know you have to walk on eggshells?

Advice 2: Read her mind. If you fail, you're an asshole.

Advice 3: Be around so she can take her anger out on you if she wants to. You have to bend over and take it, remember advice 1.

WE are not crazy. YOU are crazy.

1. If I ever dated a guy who would let me abuse him while being an irrational cunt I'd dump him. I'd see him as a doormat and there is no way I'd be attracted to that. (Which I am sure goes for you too, only you won't say it because it'd be contradictory for you to realise you need someone to oppose you and not bend over for you.)

2. If I ever dated a guy who didn't know what I needed without me saying it, I'd say it. What you're asking is just fucked up. If you want him close, initiate contact, ask him to stay. Guys want to be left alone when crying. They might project on you. That's why you have to TALK to them.

3. If I ever got my period I would pay extra care to be kind and polite during that time. Not make excuses as to why I'm acting like a cunt. I'm not saying I won't be grouchy and I won't make mistakes. But to just proclaim you have permission to be a cunt is repulsive to me. You don't.

Wimps who put up with this get dumped. Bitches who act like this get dumped. That's why you they have to settle for one another and eventually divorce because their relationship WILL suck...

[onlyaguy]

Very well said!!!

[Coffinspire]

Even though I want to tell you to fuck off I'm not going to because you don't know me. I'm saying this for the guys that have a girlfriend that doesn't know they do this. I am crazy and I know that. I'm happily married and my husband totally gets me thank you very much. I'm glad you have your shit together but there are women that don't know they do this and guys that don't know what this girl needs. A guy that knows how to deal with me at my worst (sorry to say I'm sure you get like this too) is gold in my eyes.

[MaxFe]

Indeed very well said!

[rthomas43]

I'm going to write a take for girls dealing with angry and verbally abusive boyfriends.

Is he mad at you for absolutely no reason? Is he yelling hurtful things at you? Then get on your knees and blow him, finish him, and then make him a sandwich, because apparently we're rewarding bad behavior now.

[posted]

You, I like you. Glorious beard by the way.

[lumos]

1. Speak for yourself. I don't know any (normal) girl who would react that way, myself included. Taking your anger out on people who haven't done anything to you is selfish and rude as fuck. Learn how to control your anger and talk about why your angry in a sensible manner, especially when the person you're talking to hasn't done anything wrong and doesn't deserve to get blamed for your shitty day.

2. While I do think that comforting someone when they're crying can be important, you have to realize that not everyone is good at comforting people/thinks it's a good idea to comfort someone when they're crying. And not everyone actually wants to be comforted when they're crying. Some people want to be left alone, and only want to talk about it and be comforted when they're done.

3. I'm normal when I'm on my period. I don't want to just eat and watch movies, I rarely even do that in the first place. If you act like a crazy person when you're on your period (and it seems like you're a little crazy in general too, based on this entire Take), don't expect people to want to cuddle up to you and comfort you and watch movies with you.

Basically this entire myTake is extremely one-sided and it seems like you just want to justify the fact that some women are emotional wrecks and don't want to take any responsibility for it. Eh.

[Coffinspire]

Well there is no freaking way in hell that you don't have a bad day like this. I'm calling bullshit on that. I know as a fact that everyone on this planet cries and yells at people so don't call me a nut case and not realize that everyone is a little nutty.

[lumos]

Lmfao yeah maybe I had a bad day like that when I was 10. Not anymore. I don't take my anger out on random people who don't deserve it. I might vent to someone, but I'm in no way directing my anger AT them when they have literally done nothing to deserve it. I'm not an asshole.

[Coffinspire]

It's called projection and people still do it. Another term is denial.

[lumos]

I'm not in denial. Why is controlling your emotions such a difficult concept to understand? You need anger management if you still, after age 10, lash out on people randomly even though they haven't done anything, just because your day was shitty. Taking your anger out on people like that is not healthy, and shouldn't be "normal" at all.

[Coffinspire]

Well I'm not perfect and no one is. You make it sound like I do this on a daily (which is not the case) but yeah, it happens, I don't know why that is so hard to understand. I think it's important to accept people in their good and bad moments, because like I said, we all have them.

[posted]

What you can do : move on and find a girl who isn't selfish, demanding and take out a shitty day on you, like a punching bag.

". She's yelling at you for something stupid or nothing

Yeah, we do that. First thing to ask youself before you start arguing (and making it worse on your part)"

Oh ok, so if I just worked 20 hours straight, soaked through with mud n shit, she starts going off about literally nothing because her day was 'sooooo difficult', we're not going to be together anymore.

"Period time!"
Kind of the same as the first, if she starts taking it out on me, nope. Know plenty of girls that seem to function and be perfectly pleasant with everyone. If she wants to watch movies and shit, sure whatever, if she starts acting like a bitch and blaming her period, crosses a line.

" She starts crying and won't tell you what's wrong" is retarded and she had better be straight up, not like a toddler, i'm not going to ask more than once.

[Coffinspire]

Lol I'm usually normal on my period but there are times when it hurts to walk, and that's when I get cranky.

[Anonymous]

Hrm, I don't agree with this. Just because someone had a bad day doesn't give them the excuse to act like a toddler :p If I had a bf who acted like that, I'd leave the room in all of the scenarios you listed, and then if he kept doing it over and over... He wouldn't be my bf anymore! I want someone who can act maturely.

[Coffinspire]

So he's not allowed to get angry or upset? You'll be single forever! If someone just crashed into his car that he physically worked on for years and he came into the house, sat on the couch, and calmly stated that someone hit his car with any other emotion besides anger and frustration, I would drive him to the psych ward because that's not normal.

[Opinion Owner]

He could act as hysterically as he wanted to in a different room, and then sit next to me and vent his feelings MATURELY :p

[Opinion Owner]

I actually have a 6 year old cousin who does that. Whenever she starts to get really upset, she'll get up without being told by anyone, and leave the room and go sit somewhere by herself until she can calm down. If a kindergartner can do that, I'd expect my bf to be able to.

[dartmaul15]

basically you're trying to excuse being a total BITCH.
Have fun finding a decent guy

[Coffinspire]

I'm married and he's wonderful.

[dartmaul15]

I wasn't asking about his behavior, but yours.

You're basically asking him to just suck up your crap and accept it. Are you letting him treat you the same way?

[Coffinspire]

I don't know why everyone is making themselves out to be perfect, I know I'm not and I have days like these (not often just saying) and to me it's important for my husband to be there for me when I need him instead of leaving me for having one irrational moment every once in a blue moon, that was my point. No one on this planet can say they've never had a bad day. I don't let him treat me like that I tell him not to get angry at me because he's hungry, then I feed him. Yes, suck it up and accept someone for everything they are.

[dartmaul15]

The problem is not that we think we're perfect, the problem is this;
You expect him to be your personal ranting doll and verbal punching bag. He's supposed to just listen to your shit, basically just "shut up and listen to me"
But you don't tolerate the same kind of behavior from him, basically just shut up and fix whatever is bothering you"

Am I the one seeing a quite obvious double standard here? I suspect we got a case of "it's not about the nail"
That is why I can't tolerate your logic, because it's hypocrisy

[Coffinspire]

My husband does do that I just said that and I do tolerate it. If I argue with him it gets worse. I learned that it was because he was hungry so now I can say shut up and eat, but when we first started dating I had to wait until he was done for him to tell me he was hungry. We usually don't have that problem anymore because we know each other so well. He knows what to do for me and I know what to do for him. I'm not sure where you're seeing the hypocrisy you're trying to make it sound like men should bow down to women, and I don't believe that at all.

[dartmaul15]

you're still ignoring the fact you can tell him to "shut up and eat", while you in this take is telling that HE should shut up and listen when YOU bitch!
I say it aain, hypocracy!

[Coffinspire]

Well he's more than happy to do that for me and I love him for it, so whatever you want to think, you go ahead. Yes, I need someone to listen to me bitch, especially if it's a legit bitchfest. God forbid people listen to each other.

[dartmaul15]

no, i want peopel to listen. It's actually really important in a relationship.
I just don't want them to be fucking doormats who doesn't have the balls to say stop when legit need to get something off their chest turns into bitching and complaining.

[Coffinspire]

Why is it a bad thing to listen to why she/he is upset? It always comes out as complaining what's the difference? Things in relationships aren't picture perfect listening to bitching and complaining is a part of it just like fixing it and you can't fix things if you don't know there is something wrong.

[dartmaul15]

it's not a bad thing to listen. But you're not asking him to listen to legit complaining. In this take you're crossing that limit, and are asking the guy to be your personal ranting doll and therapist! That's not okay.
Bitching and complaining breed more bitching and complaining! I'm fairly sure you'd be pissed off if he always bitched and complained when you didn't do something, instead of having a serious constructive conversation about it. What this take descrives is ONE WAY COMINUCATION! That's solving NOTHING. All it does s beeding even more frustration!

You want to fix something? Then sit the fuck down and talk about it. find out what is wrong, and how you can fix it TOGETHER! You're not doing that!

[dartmaul15]

Oh, by the way, it seems just about every coment agree you're just being crazy and bitchy, and need to correct your own bitchy behavior. instead you're asking and making him accept it, and bend over to cater to you whenever you're being a total bitch.

[Coffinspire]

I'm not denying that I am a bitch or crazy (not clinically) but why would I be in a relationship if I can't share all sides of me? That would be dumb. If I'm acting bitchy or crazy, obviously something is wrong and I would like my partner to comfort me and work through it with me instead of being told that I need to check myself for being upset. He does the same thing I do and I've met many people that get cranky more frequently than I do. If you can't handle the good and bad in someone then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. Having a conversation happens AFTER you're done being upset. EVERYONE has these moments and if you deny it you're lying to yourself. I have a right to be upset and I have a right to express it. If my husband couldn't handle comforting me and loving all sides of me we wouldn't be together, and I respect what he does for me so I do the same for him.

[dartmaul15]

true that. But also keep in mind that if you can't controll your bad sides, you should work on yourself instead of making others work for you.
I'm just saying you, judging by this take, is making him a ranting doll for your bitching. Also no sane man will stick up with this forever, keep that in mind. Constructive complaining is okay as long as you too want to help out, bitcinh however is a plain and simple no go. It's not helping.

And most, if not all, comenters here seem to agree with me.

[Coffinspire]

Yeah because everyone thinks that they're so mature that they all of sudden don't get angry or upset which baffles me that no one is able to admit to their flaws. Well my husband is perfectly sane I assure you and takes a lot of pride knowing that he can do what I need him to. I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to be comforted in a time of need by someone that cares for me, knowing I do the same for him. I shouldn't feel embarrassed or feel that I should hide anything I'm feeling from my partner. He knows exactly how I feel and why, always. I shouldn't have to go to a therapist to be heard by someone, that's freaking stupid. Especially my partner, that's the person you're supposed to be able to go to with anything. I really think that's what women mean when they say they want their partner to "listen" to them. If I had a bad day then yes I would like to get it off my chest with no judgment or I lash out because no one really cares what I feel like

[Coffinspire]

Whether anyone agrees with me or not everything I said still stands and I will back up everything I said with examples. I don't use people as a verbal punching bag, I snap at people who are assholes to me on those bad days because obviously they're having a bad day not realizing that maybe I am too? I don't lash out on random people, that would be dumb.

[dartmaul15]

understand the difference between bitching/being a bitch, and healthy need to talk about problems.
The last one is perfectly fine, and encouraged. The first one, which you are suggesting in this take, is NOT okay!
Seriously, maybe, just maybe you should take a step or ten back, and try to see it from the guy's perspective. You would probably be surprised. Or you'd realize you're unable to, in which case you should understand you need to work on your ability to see things from multiple sides.

You've posted a take, and EVERY SINGLE GUY here disagreed with you, and one even openly stated it'd be a dealbreaker. Out of 4 coments by girls, 3 disagreed with you, and 1 was irellevant. It never ever occured to you there's a patern here? Not even for a teeny tiny second?

oh, and a little video for you XD
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

[Coffinspire]

Guys don't know the difference between "bitching" and "the need to talk" which is why I wrote this in the first place. And most of the guys on here say that women are "too much work" according to other takes that I've done, which have been promoted also. Guys don't want to put so much work into the relationship. I do see it from a guys prospective, I'd be like "uh wft just happened?" Totally get it, I know it gets ugly and you don't know what to do (whole point of writing this!) I take pride in telling the guys that I've dated what happens and what to do, because honestly, I can't help it. If they don't get it I'm more than happy to explain whats happening as I think many women are (we're not good at keeping things to ourselves, usually) if I'm upset and start crying, which I'm more than entitled to since it only happens once every couple months, I don't want the guy just leaving me be until I feel better, that to me is a failure to be there for me as a partner. I would never walk out

[Coffinspire]

On someone whos crying just because I don't understand. Or if they're carrying on raising their voice to me, I'm not going to waste my time challenging it because it will go away and they'll talk to me after. (yes this has happened and yes it has decreased since I came to understand why they were angry and what I could do to make them feel better) That's so messed up to not care that your partner is having a rough time and quite selfish, if you don't want to deal with it, how the heck do you think they feel? Anger and sadness are NORMAL. Now if it got physical or violent then that is definitely a deal breaker hands down, since there is obviously a danger, but other than that why the hell would you walk away from someone that is distraught? I wouldn't want that kind of emotional distance in a partner where they could just walk away and leave me there to deal with it.

[Coffinspire]

Just reread my first paragraph and saw where it could be misleading thinking that the guy is getting verbally bashed, but asking what's wrong usually stops anyone in their tracks and gets the gears going, which is why I said that. Not rocket science. That was supposed to be more like say you loaded the dishwasher wrong and she flips out because the dishes are facing the wrong way. That's the kind of scenario I mean. Not just walking up to the guy like Your a dick because I said so (that's just verbal abuse lol) So, as I stated in the first paragraph, something stupid, something else is wrong.

[dartmaul15]

you know, we guys do know the difference between them. The thing is just that we are considerably more strict than you girls.
Because from the very moment we were kids we have been told to cut the bullshit, and FIX THINGS!
"But your bitch-o-meter is wrong". No it isn't, it's no more wrong than yours.

You need to understand the concept of "compromise".

My whole fucking point is that accepting it as ok for your partner to act like a crazy bitch is not okay. If your partner is having a rough time you accept their need for help ONLY if they can controll themselves and actually show some self-controll. If they're mad and lashes out at the closest person there is, then we got a serious problem. And the behavior described in this take borderlines to that

[dartmaul15]

And the dishwasher scenario you described is EXACTLY what is not tolleratable. It's one fucking thing that you can simply have a mature conversation about. If you have to blow up over that you are plain crazy, simple as that.
It's a SMALL thing that takes 2 minutes to solve in a mature way, instead you blow it out of proportions and acts crazy. At that point i'll just find her annoying and bitchy, if that little is enout to set her off. Show some fucking self controll, girl. It's not that fucking hard!

Because that's exactly what it seems is missing in this picture. You're making the guy compensate for your lack of self-controll.

[Coffinspire]

There is no way that you have control 100% of the time. So impossible and delusional. It is okay to express your anger, it's freaking healthy instead of holding it in all the time. Who's going to take someone serious that is sweet? Back to the dishwasher "Hey honey, can you please put the dishes in the right way? I've had such an awful day." "Yeah sure (never happening)" If my husband got into an accident and wrecked his car and calmly walked into the house, sat on the couch and nicely told me his car is totaled, he'd be going to the hospital immediately. Why? You lost your car and everything you invested in it, not normal to behave rationally. I expect the yelling and screaming and freaking out.

[Coffinspire]

And I do have a good amount of self control, I don't go off about someone not holding the door for me or not using their turn signals, which piss me off by the way. None of it is random, there is always a reason, and it is NORMAL to get angry. I'm not apologizing for being what I am. If I'm angry, you know it, if I'm happy, you know it, if I'm sad, you know it. No surprises, open and honest that's how I am. I know the concept of compromise or I wouldn't be married, obviously. My husband is allowed to act crazy every once in a while, when he gets hungry he gets grumpy, so I feed him, and then he's fine. I understand why he's angry and I'm more than happy to fix it, I expect the same. That doesn't mean that I'm condoning this behavior, there is genuinely something wrong. Condoning bad behavior is throwing a fit about an item until they get it from you.

[dartmaul15]

it' funny, because looking at society men are supposed to be rational all the fucking time. And for 19 years and 10 months i have NEVER lost my temper as long as i can remember! So you can do it too!

And yes, telling him nicely he's putting the dishes wrong is in fact the first step! It's called rewarding doing things right, instead of punishing for doing things wrong. Rewarding breeds good behavior, punishing breeds attempts to hide bad behavior. BASIC sociology! And acting crazy is punishing.
Face it, there's no way you can defend acting crazy over a fucking dishwasher. It's simply not happening, and we both know it!
As for the car; dude's likely in shock and any form of reaction would be normal.

[Coffinspire]

Well I guess good for you for holding everything in. I don't do that and I really don't want to do that. At least I'm up front about what I'm feeling and why. EVERY couple fights over stupid shit dude. You're 19 and young yet so trust me it will happen and it is normal. You've never fought with your parents or siblings or a friend that stabbed you in the back? Me and my husband argue over stupid crap and we know it that's just part of loving each other and you actually bond over it.

[dartmaul15]

I raise my voice, I let people know when there's a problem, but I do not act like you described in the take.
Why? Because it's not solving anything. You need constructive conversations, not crazy rants.
There's two ways of letting your problems be known; bitching and acting crazy about it, and legit talking together to solve it.
Choose one

[Coffinspire]

raising your voice and yelling are the same thing. Screaming is a whole other ball game. You can still lose your shit and not scream, which I do by being a smart ass or sarcastic. I'll act like a nut case, my husband likes women that stands up for themselves.

[dartmaul15]

you know, you've considerably "weakened" your statements since i wrote my first message.
Which shows that you are one of two things; 1. a conformist trying to make me agree with you. 2. wrote this whole take in frustration.

And no matter what you are, i suggest you grow a pair and actually stands for the words you put on paper, instead of trying to ease your way out of it.

You can't deny you told the guy to just tollerate bordeline verbal abuse. The evidence is written black on white in your own take. Would be fun if we did the same for guy. "is he upset and smashing things? Maybe beating you? Let him finish, then talk with him".
It's equally abusive, and should be treated equally. The difference is just that the second one is a case of "big bad wolf" syndrome, and the irst one a case of "pretty princess do no harm".
Overstatement? Hardly.

[Coffinspire]

Never contradicted any statement. My husband does the same crap I do. Every relationship has this kind of crap. If I'm upset and crying, I want comfort. If I'm angry, I want understanding. If I'm having period cramps, I want company. Not a hard thing to understand and it really doesn't take that much work.

[dartmaul15]

again you're toning down your aguements to "conform" in an attempt to make me agree.

You didn't describe that kind of behavior in your take. Your take described crazy bitchy behavior. HUGE difference.

[Coffinspire]

Um, yeah, explaining it in a way that you'd understand. If you don't want a crazy woman you might as well date a man. Good luck having any relationship without stupid arguments.

[dartmaul15]

been there, done that. It's quite easy to reduce stupid arguements and bitching to a minimum. First of all, get to know her before you're dating, so you're sure she's not batshit insane. Secondly, set a standard of what's acceptable and not (this goes both ways).
It really is that simple.

[Coffinspire]

I think that we can both agree on. Some people can handle different levels of crazy better than others.

[dartmaul15]

yup. And people'd definition of "crazy/bitchy" varies too.
The key to finding a healthy level for your relationship is finding a level that works for both of you

[Anonymous]

While I appreciate the uncommon honesty about female behavior, your advice seems to be focused on what HE can do to make it better for HER when SHE is acting crazy. How about some advice for the ladies on how to not act so crazy?

[onlyaguy]

Good point. This take seems to be a bit one sided.

[Coffinspire]

My girlfriends did that for me before my husband did. Always made me feel better and I loved them for it. There is no way to tell the ladies how to not act crazy, I don't think it's possible.

[Opinion Owner]

My point was that in discussions like this the focus always seems to be on how men need to coddle women who are experiencing "episodes", when it really should be on the women who think they are entitled to behave in certain ways simply because they are women.

Society holds men accountable for their actions but for some reason we give women a pass on things like this. We should be holding women accountable for their behavior just like we do men. Coddling them just enables the behavior.

[Coffinspire]

Well then I experienced the exact opposite because I don't act that way anymore (or on VERY rare occasions) but my husband used to be that way too. He'd come home from work really cranky and I didn't know why and he'd take it out on me. Then I figured out that his dad didn't stop for food so he wasn't really cranky or mad at me, he was just hungry. Men do it too, but it's more of a stereotype for women than men. Comforting someone who's going through a rough time isn't enabling, someone who isn't going through a rough time and throws a fit to get what they want is bad behavior.

[Anonymous]

There is a difference between being a little crazy/hormonal and playing mind games. Most of us can deal with a little crazy/hormonal, but we REALLY HATE mind games. Just be honest and direct.

[Coffinspire]

No mind games, just hormonal/crazy.

[Opinion Owner]

We can't ask what is wrong even though something clearly is, and we get blamed for it if we do, and we get blamed if we just ignore it when you say "nothing." Mind games...

[Coffinspire]

Patience isn't a mind game. Sometimes we're not exactly ready to put into words what's wrong. Or we feel like you really don't care how we feel, so why say it? If you really wait for it, then you care. It's not a mind game, a mind game is something you do to control the other person.

[Opinion Owner]

We really want to know we just dont want all the BULLSHIT. We want honesty, you know all that stuff you lecture us about when you think we are lying but somehow dont think it applies to you?

[Coffinspire]

Lol do you ever get what you want and not the bullshit that comes with it? My husband hates that things like that happen too, but he knows that if he walks away from it I'm going to be even angrier than I originally was.

[Opinion Owner]

What is that I hear? Is it a future divorce case? Why yes I believe it is! Then you can join all the women who play bs mind games and wonder why they can't find/keep a man.

[Coffinspire]

Um he's def not leaving me, he loves me. And like I said do you ever get anything and not the bullshit that comes with it? I didn't think so. So I guess you should switch to guys even though they have their own set of annoying quirks that women put up with.

[Opinion Owner]

You keep thinking that.

[YourFutureEx]

Is it only me who didn't find that bad?
-No because this is promoted.

[Coffinspire]

For real?

[YourFutureEx]

Why don't people take me seriously :/?

[Coffinspire]

Because everyone else told me it was wrong lol

[YourFutureEx]

Well, I'm not a usual guy then ;)

[I_M_LEGEND]

i tried walking away once, my ex ran up to me slapping my head...

some bitches are just cray cray

[Coffinspire]

That's probably the same thing I would do lol It's always funny to look back on but in the moment it sounds like a good idea

[I_M_LEGEND]

visually, you def look like the type lol

jk hugs.

[Coffinspire]

Ouch lol Yeah well usually everyone gets over it pretty quickly

[Anonymous]

sorry nutjob, i prefer my girls sane, and i will marry one like that...

[Coffinspire]

Good luck! We save the crazy for around month 3, so be prepared.

[Opinion Owner]

lol...

[DumpliingPrincess]

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