Guys, do you prefer women who are mysterious or an open book?

[passionforprince]

When you first meet do you prefer a woman who starts to discuss everything about herself. Or do you prefer a woman who only reveals when asked. I am not an open book and I find that the guys I bond with typically care to ask to questions to get to know me. But other guys I typically lose because they just want me to tell them everything.

[Barnesy]

Personally I like girls who reveal some things that are important to them to stimulate the friendship and build trust but obviously not everything.

There are two extremes: 1) Girls who are so private and secretive they only give short answers to specific questions.
2) Girls who just blab anything and everything that pops into their head.

I don't like either extreme but I tend to lean more towards 1 because revealing personal things to someone else should correlate with how good the friendship is.

As long as the conversation develops alongside trust then I think 1 is much better. If she still won't discuss anything and I've been seeing her for a while then I start wondering whether she really trusts me or not. Why am I with her if she won't talk about anything?

But, those girls who just talk about anything and everything always end up getting on my nerves.

[TheStaff_Sergeant]

I prefer women to be somewhat mysterious and enigmatic in the beginning. But, then again, breaking down barriers is my forte. Nevertheless, I've encountered women who went on and on about themselves and their circumstances to me shortly after meeting. And in many instances, it occurred prior to the first or second date. It was if they wanted me to help resolve their issues. I mean, did not approach them to be their psychologist or to stroke their egos.

Nonetheless, for the first couple of weeks or so within meeting someone, I prefer a gradual revelation about themselves, as opposed to an open book, in terms of getting to know her.

[Abhijit3101]

For everlasting relationship Love and Faithfulness are most important conditions. You can love a person if he / she is known to you. Getting required information is the purpose of dating. You need not to tell everything, but may keep some secrets with you. It is not telling lie, it is not sharing not required information. It may harm to share everything - required or not required in good establishing good relationship.

[Anonymous]

I think it's best to share the basics about yourself when we first meet so I can get an idea of who you are and what you're like. But once we get through that part and really hit it off I prefer discovering the more personal things. Relationship would be more fun that way.

[Dionysos]

I like to know where I stand with a woman.

[knotme]

Guys like some mystery but not lairs

[soHotttZac]

Tha chick has to learn how to mix it up!