She's just using you. She just says she's going to give you space but doesn't ever do it because what she wants is more important than what she knows would be the right thing to do. She knows you're into her, she knows she's not into you, but she's getting what she wants/needs out of you so she's not willing to stop this in it's tracks.
The right thing for her to do would be to cut you off because she knows it's not going anywhere and you're likely not going to just suddenly lose interest, and she KNOWS this is the case because she said she would give you space, but she's not doing it. She's not doing it because if she did she would lose whatever benefit she's getting out of how things are currently going. She knows you're never going to get what it is you're after, but as long as this continues she's getting what she wants.
She's using you.
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May I ask what exactly you're doing? if you're trying to get her then forget it, she's just using you as the comfort zone. It's not so much that she doesn't want to get it on with you but right now she's so comfortable with you she just doesn't want to ruin that comfort (well basically friend zone but she has already made that clear).
This is actually a big thing for me.
I love it when a man talks me to sleep.
I'm a big fan of voices, so when I hear one that I relish, I just can't shake it.
As for where my love of being talked to sleep came from, I genuinely have no idea. There's something so relaxing about it, and as someone who suffers from severe insomnia, anything that helps me relax and fall asleep, I long for.
It's strangely sweet and romantic too... it's like I feel held even when I'm not.
For me, it doesn't reflect at all on how boring or not boring the person is or the conversation is. It's more a reflection of how comfortable I feel with that person, how they can make me feel so at ease, how I feel at peace when I hear their voice.
Because its comforting to have you there. I loved that so so much when me and my guy were long distance..
like she said you could, just have a soothing voice. Is it deep?
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Some women just really love to have their man (or any man with an appealing voice) talk them to sleep. I think it's more common than a lot of men realize, especially because men tend to be so visually-driven that we often overlook the power of the other senses and how women utilize them to higher degrees than we (typically) do.
Personally I find it very flattering when a woman compliments and loves my voice, and I wouldn't hate it if she wanted to fall asleep listening to me talk.She wouldn't have told her baby's dad about u unless she likes you specially if he is a jealous person
She likes talking to you and got sleepy?
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