Why do girls find everything "creepy"?

[Anonymous]

why do girls find everything "creepy" about guys, what makes a guy creepy, is this just another way girls call a guy ugly?

[kheserthorpe]

Yes and no.

It's important to recognize that men dot typically feel threatened by women. So we aren't closely reading their body language to see if they are potentially dangerous.

We actually read other MEN more often to see if they are aggressive.

When girls feel a guy is 'creepy' it means they feel uncomfortable around him. So it tends to be a combination of things. One is they pick up sexual interest and don't find him sexually desireable. But that's generally combined with something that makes them feel not relaxed. It could be that he's being sexual in a very inappropriate way which would make them feel concerned that he won't follow OTHER social conventions. But with shy guys it's normally that they pick up his anxiety or tension and that he's hiding the nature of his interest.

Humans are actually quite attuned to picking up tension. We hear it in voices an we read it in body language. And it makes us feel anxious too. This is the instinct telling us that a stranger might be planning something. We don't know what but we better be ready.

It's easier for most guys to imagine how it is for women by imagining gay men hitting on you. A guy is relaxed and friendly and hits on you and you tell him you're not interested and he shrugs and laughs you can't blame him for trying and forgets about it probably isn't creepy. Now imagine a guy who is bigger than you who just keeps flirting awkwardly then looking intense and slightly upset and is physically agitated. How do you feel now?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't stop at thinking everything is creepy, they're afraid of the dark and won't go for walks alone around their own neighborhood early in the morning because someone might rape them or kidnap them, if they hear a loud noise at night the panic and ask us to check it out, they always want someone to go with them everywhere, they're afraid to face all sorts of bugs that are smaller than their finger nail, scary movies keep them from sleeping at night, when they see a show or a movie with a twisted idea it emotionally troubles them and they need to talk to you about how sick and demented it was for 2 hours. Girls pretty much live in fear every second of their life... Give them a break, they have no balls.

[Asker]

balls have nothing to do with being brave, girls have boobs - them "balls" are bigger than testicles ya know, go with that haha

[Opinion Owner]

A padded shield of fat on their chest to protect their heart from mortal wounds. hahaha! :p I know, don't take it literally. We're brought up to be tough and stand on our own two feet. They're babied, spoiled, and protected. Girls in general have autonomy issues due to how they are raised.

[realerthanreal]

They came off as creeps. Simple as that. They said something weird or did something weird. Maybe tried to get with a girl and just couldn't take "no" for an answer. Came on too strong, gave weird compliments, etc. And I'm sorry to say, but most of the men doing these things are usually ugly. Good looking guys have no problem moving on and are a little more laid back. Just my observation.

[Asker]

all the reasons why guys dont make moves is that stuff you mentioned so ill just reject every girl who askes me out in the future if it happens than i won't have these problems anymore being played

[realerthanreal]

Awww, I'm only answering the question. I don't know you personally, but you don't come off that way. To be fair, a lot of women are also stuck up and b*tches. I would observe them first before approaching.

[Nuugget]

Lol Anytime I have to explain to a guy that I am not in a relationship with to stop doing something that makes me uncomfortable. For example this guy that I worked with liked to tickle the girls at the job. I found that creepy because I didn't know him and it's just weird to go around doing that, especially in a workplace. Lol creepy does not mean ugly.

[SabyToes]

When a girl gets uncomfortable from a guys presence or actions she will call him creepy. It can be another word for ugly but i usually use it when i don't feel necessarily "safe" around said person.

[kambo_trick3y]

Hot guys can be creepy too, it's just that they get more leeway.

Guys are the same way too. If a hot girl was stalking you and breathing outside your window every night, chances are you'd probably let her in.

[selectivethought]

Nah those girls are crazy... You better load your gun and lock your doors.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

What makes a guy "creepy" is that the girl isn't attracted to him. Guys she finds attractive can do the same stuff a "creepy" guy does and get away with it.

[Anonymous]

Basically anything a guy does that remotely expresses attraction, fancying, pursing or simply looking at or liking a girl when the girl does not consider him good looking and part of the social elite

[LittleSally]

No. Creepy means creepy. That he/she gives someone the creeps.

[Asker]

why, is it just because its a guy

[LittleSally]

No.
I've recently met a girl who is creepier than most guys I've found creepy.

[nickstaa]

Lol I guess because they're intimidated by guys so if he does something wrong it's creepy. Guys usually aren't intimidated by girls so we usually don't find them creepy lol.

[GairahMini]

When ugly/asshole guys try to pick up a girl, than she'll find them creepy.

[Mrbigd]

Easy. If a girl finds you unattractive/ugly she will tell you that you are a creep. Otherwise, if she finds you hot or whatever, it wil" be a matter of days until she comes to you or sits next to you and you two start talking...

[Asker]

thats exactly what i thought

[Blueeyes81]

Yes, yes it is. You know only ugly people are rapists and pedophiles.

[rUinSAYAN]

lmfao

[Anonymous]

Lol creepy guys are the ones that stare and never say anything

[Asker]

those are called shy guys who like the girl and who want the girl to approach first

[Opinion Owner]

Those are called creepers. Think about it. Someone just stares at you for a really long time from across the room? That's not shy, that's not flattering. Being stared at is very uncomfortable

[selectivethought]

So 99% of women under the age of 25 are creepers and 75% of the women over the age of 25 are creepers. Interesting...

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sure your stats are very accurate

[selectivethought]

That's right. :)

[Shyguy_1988]

I wouldn't call that a creeper in my eyes, but guys don't get as creeped out as easy as girls do. I have had girls stare at me from across the room, normally look away if I look at them and hold eye contact, but its not creepy, happens at the gym frequently. People like to people watch in public and to me it is a normal thing people do, not creepy. Not focusing on one person for an extended period of time and not moving, that can be a bit strange. But if you're occupied and your eyes wonder and happen to stay on someone for 5 or so seconds, no big deal.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, someone looking at you is different from someone staring at you. What I'm referring is to when a guy just stares without a smile for close to 10+ seconds. It really is awkward and weird and creepy

[Asker]

that blank stare means he's sad cause he knows he can't never have the girl he likes and is looking at

[genericname85]

It's only creepy, if they are not attracted to the guy xD

[Anonymous]

For me, creepy guys always have a strong current of anger or resentment underneath their actions.

[Sex_Panther]

Summarized: "Unwanted Attention".

[cavmanier]

This and I'll ad that they feel uncomfortable.

[cavmanier]

They are past due on their coodie shot.

[Asker]

lmao!

[NoblesseOblige]

Same as us. Ugly chicks who act sly to hit on you.

[Shyguy_1988]

Because girls get creeped out easy!