What to do if a girl tries to make you jealous?

[Anonymous]

What should I do? If just ignore it how does it make her feel? I don't want to kill everything so what should I do about her making me jealous?

[northernligths]

Id ask her why she is doing that. What does she hope to gain from that behaviour. Then Id say if you can't be mature I want nothing to do with you. Id be serious about it too. Id stop talking to her... but if she knows she has you wrapped around her finger she will call your bluff. You need to be serious and willing to leave her. You teach people how to treat you if you dont tell her know you won't put up with it she will keep doing it.

From the fact that you say: " I don't want to kill everything.." Tells me she does have you wrapped around her finger and you are probably not willing to give her up. She knows this and thus will continue to try to make you jealous.

Ask her how she would fell if you did the same thing. Id probably do the same thing but it gets childish but if you guys are into games then do it!

[Asker]

What do you mean you'd do the same thing? It's super childish and super annoying. I stopped trying to make her jealous and tip toe around stuff like that now.

[northernligths]

oh, I was saying you try to make her jealous... but I agree with you it is childish when people play those type of games. But I was saying if you too are into games then play along.

But honestly what she is doing is just unpleasant. The adult think to do it tell her it bothers you and you would like it to stop immediately. If you feel like letting her have a chance to change then give her a chance. I dont know her, maybe she has other great qualities and just this bad one. Thats your call. But if it continues, or she has no other great qualities, I would just break up with her because I wouldn't want to be around someone who acts like that. You dont deserve that.

[AnimeDreama]

I play along and make her jealous in return :3 It's funny because it turns into a game xD

[naambb]

call it off. or she'll go on cuz u r giving her no way back. is she ur gf yet?

[Asker]

What do you mean giving her no way back? And no not yet, why?

[naambb]

ah just to make sure she's doing that to u on purpose... if she's going with the other guy (or whatever she's doing) just to make u jealous, but u don't seem to care, how can she pull it off now? She's probably just go with that guy even if she didn't mean to.

[Asker]

What do you mean go off with that guy if she didn't mean too? How does that work?

[naambb]

... so how exactly is she trying to make u jealous?
cuz i don't know the story im just guessing.. is she flirting with some other guy?
anyway if she's not ur gf but she likes u and tries to make u jealous to see if u care, and u just ignore it, then she'll probably think u don't really care, then game's over. girls want attention after all

[Asker]

It seems like if ignore her she will go to one of my buddies. A while back there was a time at lunch where she was sitting in front of me and my buddy was next to me. When she said down she like flipped her hair over her head real sexy and smiled at him right in front of me. It felt blantantly obvious but it pissed me off. Her and I used to talk everyday, and I'd never seen them talk really. Anther time in a meeting he made a joke then looked over at her really fast then she like looked over at me right away like to see if I was looking or something. Another time me and my buddy are talking in the hall way a few feet away from each other going the opposite. She comes walking down the hall towards the direction I'm going and stop and goes up to him and makes a joke about what we were talking about but she like keeps her eye on me the whole time she does it, then as I turn to walk away pissed she runs to catch up with me. So I don't really get it?

[naambb]

aha... since u already acted like pissed she probably already knew that she's making u jealous...
can u really ignore it though ;p? hmm guess she'll carry on with playing this game now
just curious what was going on between u 2?

[Asker]

No I try to ignore it now but maaannn is it hard and maaaannn am I paranoid. So ignored her hard for almost 2 months last winter and acted cold towards her and my buddy tells me that she has been walking and talking with him everyday (this is what her and I used to do) he even said it was creeping him out. When he told
Me this I went back to talking to her again (what the hell was this move?)

What do you mean what was going on?

[naambb]

... why is she trying to make u jealous how did it start?
does ur buddy like her though

[Asker]

I can't tell how it started I remember talking about other girls being hot around her, I can't remember if I started it or her, I feel like I did but can't remember.

I think he does yes, why?

[naambb]

obviously its a game so dont be serious about it and waste ur time, SHE WANTS TO WIN UR ATTENTION... and probably everyone's. ignore her and warn ur buddy not to be serious too

[Asker]

It's so weird so she went to my buddy when I ignored her for two months then I came back to her and she drops him he even said how she changed up her routine in him said "it broke his heart" lol

[Asker]

Part 2

Oh and when I see her when we make eye contact she looks down right away. She also blushes around me all the time. Shy little girl.

[naambb]

were u friends (u and her) or did u have a crush on her or what was ur relationship?
based on what u told me, she heard u saying some other girl's hot and stated all the stupid stuff.. guess she just wants u think her hot too. if that's all it is.
so why don't u just go ahead and tell her she is hot tooo (whether u really think so or not, just tell her that), u know it never hurts to give a girl compliments... and see her reaction. and end this stupid game. cuz otherwise it's getting pointless and now ur friends involved, if she's just using him to get ur attention, that's just selfish and childish

[Nokino]

Girls do that just to see if you are up for the 'chase'. Personally, I do not like it since it could cause some emotional strains.

I would simply ignore her and let her know that I'm too occupied to play silly mind games like this.

[Asker]

To be fair i probably started it when i used to talk about the hot intern around her. But if I ignore it what does it do?

[x_psychedelic_x]

A girl usually makes a guy jealous on purpose. It's just the way for a girl to see how much a guy reacts to it, if there is no reaction he obviously doesn't care about her and she feels like it's a waste of time.

[Anonymous]

Ignore, or laugh at it