Well here's the thing: I think physical attraction is kind is of a fluid thing. My girlfriends and I can look at the same guy and we'll all have different opinions as to how attractive he is. For me, the more interesting and funny a guy is, the more I'll realize certain aspects of his physique that I find attractive. Like a guy will look totally average to me, and then we'll have a great conversation and I'll suddenly realize - wow, his eyes are a really nice shade of blue, or his nose is really straight or something.
What I'm trying to say is, a "hot boring guy" is to me an oxymoron, because I personally could never be attracted to somebody who doesn't also stimulate me mentally.
One final thought: I have a friend that I've known for about five years. Initially, I pursued a friendship with him because I found him really attractive; over the years, I've seen him treat the girls that he dates extremely poorly, cheating on them, etc. He has always treated me with respect and affection, but nonetheless I can't look at him and see his hot body, etc; I just see like his misshapen ugly nose and the pimple he always has on his chin. Girls continue to go out with him for his looks, but I honestly can't see them anymore.
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I think that I look more on personality. Yeah everyone has to be attracted to who we are with but attraction does not just have to be looks. I like someone who is funny, quick-witted, and spontaneous. I mean those are honestly the things that attract me! I feel like dating allows further attraction so I say if you have a good personality then don't worry that much about the looks. Yeah every girl wants that "handsome prince" kind of guy but I mean that prince has to have a good personality to go along with it. For me, I always think that the hotter the guy the more chance he has to cheat because he has "options."
I've always been really attracted to supposedly average looking guys. I don't know why I'm like this but some of my friends are like this too... So I guess I'm not too weird.
I tried to force myself to like the supposedly hotter guy's or pretend to like them when I was younger LOL but it just doesn't do much for me.
It's not like I say to myself "I like average looking guys", those are just the ones I find so kute and attractive.
Good looks often give charisma... they certainly don't lead to a boring life or a boring personality unless the dude grows up shy. Can't wait for the new internet innovation when it's no longer typing but something more substantially human.
I think they would prefer hot at first but when that bulb blows then average guy all the way fosho:D but it is preference.
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Definitely the average charismatic person. His charisma may add to his physical attribute.
I once dated this nice hot guy. But boring and I couldn't take it any longer. We are now friendaWomen grow more physically attracted to someone over time, and it always has to do with emotions versus the guy's physical appearance. The physical appearance helps at the first meeting, but it won't make her stay especially if the guy's boring, not funny, they have nothing in common, etc. So, to answer your question more directly, the looks aren't AS important, but most women would rather have a charismatic guy, and would sacrifice some in the looks department.
I don't think anyone would want to spend a significant amount of time with a boring person, regardless of how hot they are.
Either one depending upon which one i feel matches me better personality wise. I'm quite boring myself most times so if the boring guy is ok with that, that's who i'd take. The charismatic guy would prob get bored with me anyway.
Average charismatic. Looks will fade but a personality lasts forever
I personally will find the average guy as hot as the 'hot guy' if he really is charismatic to me. But if I don't know you or don't think you are charismatic then of course the better looking will probably win me over initially.
TBH I perfer adverage guys anyway so totally the awesome adverage guy
I might even take the boring guy since Im quite boring :/ we could match
average looking charismatic guy would be nicer and more intresting !
Give me the hot boring guy
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