Guys AND girls do it. The only thing is, you believe that females do it more frequently because of how women are portrayed. Believe me--guys do it JUST as much. Me, personally, if I need to vent, I am going to do it. I only have one or two friends that I'd be willing to to spill my bleeding heart to. Talking about your problems to other people is healthy. I don't engage in gossip, but I have seen men gossip like dogs about people before, and it can get ugly. Guys talk a lot of shit. I hate that there is this huge misconception about the sexes--that women do one thing more and we get condemned for it.
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I tell my friends how I feel what stressing me and to just vent it out. But not things that are very personal about other people then no I dont tell them that. Wentell each other what we been up too catch up where we are in life but we dont know every single detail of everything. We need to privacy and se things need to stay private.
We girls have a lot of insecurities and when we need advice or a second opinion then, naturally, we turn to our friends. My friends always know how to make me feel better or what to say, and I think that's why I ask for their options on a lot of things.
I know a lot of dudes who do the same thing. The worry here is about their own insecurity, they'll share this stuff when they're not very interesting people. For example, a moment's awkward and they need to restore the fun by bringing something that seems interesting. Private things are very interesting.
guys do the same but just, the media makes it seem like only girls do it.
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Sometimes we just need to vent, release our stress, emotions and all that. I know that I don't tell EVERYTHING to my friends, some things I like to keep private & they have some secrets they don't want us all to tell. We mainly talk about everyday stuff not a lot of gossip and shyt talking to be honest.
I don't really tell my friends everything. Maybe when i was still in high school, but lol, learnt the lesson by hard and telling others everything is not the best way out.
And at times, most of the things I wanna say is only my opinion, and there's a differences between moral and opinion, opinion is best kept to one :)Haha We can't keep secrets. However,
Guys do it too. They brag about getting laid. Even if they're a gentleman.
Girl's tell their friends stuff for advice. Our friend's are like our good conscience most of the time.well I don't know i usually tell everything to my friends, well almost everything because i want them to give me an opinion about something or just talk about it, i know, it doesn't actually make any sence why we do that lol
There are 1 or two people who I tell a lot to, and they equally confide in me. The only person that knows 'everything' is my sister. I keep the majority of my business to myself.
Do you mean we tell everyone everything about ourselves, or we spread gossip about each other?
You have no idea what blabbermouths some men can be.
I don't tell my girl friends everything, trust me there is way too much that I keep inside. But the things I do tell are all because I wan't advice or opinions on.
I think it's because they trust each other, and like to hear another girl's opinion.
Everyone needs someone to talk to and confide in. If you keep things in, that's not healthy
Haha! My boyfriend doesn't like me sharing things between us with my friends too... he just doesn't like..
can't really say all, just some girls do that , not all :)
Eww totally not me I talk to myself about my own problems an deal with it on my own cause I trust no biotch lol
Because I can't keep my mouth shut. Hahaha.. but honestly, that's how we deal with problems, and how we can keep up with all the latest news about everything.
We sure as hell don't tell each other everything. Most girls just make up random stuff to get higher on the social laddder. If its important or personal she probably won't tell anyone.
Because sharing is caring and make you release.
Not all of them, I was always a private person.
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