I feel like a lot of girls are insecure whether or not they are outgoing so that affects the decision to approach a guy or not to for fear of rejection. Also, maybe they want it to happen the "traditional" way and have him make the move because that will make her feel good about herself and she'll know for sure that he likes her if he does this so she doesn't make any sudden moves to show she feels the same way only to figure out what she though was incorrect. If that makes any sense..
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It's not easy. It's sometimes hard to build the self confidence to go up to someone you like and strike up a conversation with them. You should know I mean your I guy and I'm assuming you've done it before😜. I have a crush on this guy for a year and I never talked to him. I'm just so intimidated by him and I'm very insecure about what he will do or think when I go to talk to him. Also society has made it out to be a guys responsibility to approach a girl first. It is what it is
Its not easy to approach guys first, 1) they do not want to look like some despo girl 2) Afraid of rejection as they find it embarrassing 3) Most girls think that its the GUYS job to make the first move.
I had always made the first move with guys and all of them rejected me! :( well it was with only 3 guys i had done that too! LOL!
I think most girls think that its the guys job to approach the girl first I think that both guy and girl should approach each other girls don't want to be too clingy and annoy the guy or especially when your with your friends she might not want an audience watching her.
They usually expect guys to do the approaching, that's why. Most of the time when they do approach it's because the guy already is surrounded by many girls wanting him so she has to approach. The guys they approach is usually really attractive and not just any guy.
not to defend them or anything but because they choose not to
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That is actually, totally me. I talk to my crush a lot. But I don't tell him I like him. Because I don't want to feel embarrassed if he doesn't like me that way. We expect the guys to come up to us and ask us not the other way around. I mean if he likes you he would come up to you and tell you. I know about how guys like confidence but sometimes being scared or nervous overpowers what a guy wants in a girl.
You reckon men are pissed off by being rejected hundreds of times.
Women would be shattered if it happened once.They do :)
Both my relationships I asked the guy out.I do. But sometimes I'm worried it might annoy the guy? Not really sure tbh. Probably some girls don't because of their nerves and stuff..
Never! haha Because I'm worried I'll annoy the guy and the He will find it a TURN OFF!
They do !!
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