I sometimes catch my brothers girlfriend staring/looking at me. I can't really tell how the stare is cause i look away immediately but i am pretty sure they are there. This is going on for a few years. The stares are multiple times and sometimes over someone else's head, i see her like looking/staring at me.
I rarely see my brother and her, maybe once a month for dinner with lots of people. I am the type of person that keeps to himself a lot, so even during those times i don't even see them that much or have much interaction
One time, i also caught her like gazing at me. it was a little more intense. This was when she was in her room in a lodge and i was outside playing with kids. It kinda freaked me out cause i was just looking up and all of a sudden i see her like... looking at me.
I have absolutely no contact with her at all and very little interaction but than again i have very little interaction with anyone during those dinners. A few years back I was more interactive, that was during the lodge time.
However, whenever i do speak it's not like she is all ears. I would assume that if you are interested in someone or that if you like someone you would be all ears. etc etc. she does laugh but not like crazy. I could describe the way she acts as normal, if it wasn't for those stares.
I am a little bit confused and it's kinda freaking me out. I have no interest in getting to know her or anyone else for that matter (i keep to myself). so it's not like i give her a vibe of resentment or something cause i treat everyone the same. (other people don't stare at me, sometimes strangers do look/stare at me on the street etc)
so question is why is she doing that, I am pretty sure she knows that i see her and that i look away immediately. Not even a smile from my side just the same disinterest i have the entire time and pretty much always.
I rarely see my brother and her, maybe once a month for dinner with lots of people. I am the type of person that keeps to himself a lot, so even during those times i don't even see them that much or have much interaction
One time, i also caught her like gazing at me. it was a little more intense. This was when she was in her room in a lodge and i was outside playing with kids. It kinda freaked me out cause i was just looking up and all of a sudden i see her like... looking at me.
I have absolutely no contact with her at all and very little interaction but than again i have very little interaction with anyone during those dinners. A few years back I was more interactive, that was during the lodge time.
However, whenever i do speak it's not like she is all ears. I would assume that if you are interested in someone or that if you like someone you would be all ears. etc etc. she does laugh but not like crazy. I could describe the way she acts as normal, if it wasn't for those stares.
I am a little bit confused and it's kinda freaking me out. I have no interest in getting to know her or anyone else for that matter (i keep to myself). so it's not like i give her a vibe of resentment or something cause i treat everyone the same. (other people don't stare at me, sometimes strangers do look/stare at me on the street etc)
so question is why is she doing that, I am pretty sure she knows that i see her and that i look away immediately. Not even a smile from my side just the same disinterest i have the entire time and pretty much always.
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