Alright so my girlfriend gets stressed out and mad a lot. shell take the smallest things and make them bigger than they really are. and when that happens I'm always the one getting bitched at. shell get stressed out about things her family does, or if she can't fix her ipod, if she gets sick, or if I say the wrong things she just loses it. she's been so stressed at other things that sometimes shell just start hitting me and telling me how much she hates me, and that I'm the worst boyfriend she's ever had nd she regrets everything she's done with me. when she's upset ill try to comfort her and tell her its gonna be ok, but shell just tell me to leave her the f*** alone and push me away. if I have an answer to something and its not good enough for her than she calls me a dumb ass and says that I'm stupid. she's asked me if the shirt she was wearing was to low and asked if I would care if she wore it, when I said yes she asked why. so I told her I don't want her to walk around town and have every guy staring at her, checking her out. she got p*ssed and told me just cause I'm a perv doesn't mean every other guy is one to, and she pushed me away from her and ignored me...there's a lot more things that have happened. I just don't kno what I should do, besides leave her.w
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She has severe anger issues that are stemming from behavioral patterns she learned as a child. She learned a long time ago that she can get her way and maintain a sense of control through force, aggression, temper tantrums, and physical violence. Only she can change the way she deals with the world, and it is going to be difficult for her to do so, and sadly I don't think there is much chance she is ever going to treat you differently.
The most important thing is that you realize you don't deserve this kind of treatment and her behavior actually has very little to do with you. She wants to be in control of everything and everyone around her, and she hates the feeling of helplessness she feels when she realizes it is impossible to do so. So she turns to the things she feel she CAN control- namely, you. She is mentally and physically abusive and I strongly urge you to leave her. Not only will you save yourself all the hurt and insanity that comes with a unhealthy relationship, but she may just learn a valuable lesson about how to treat people properly.