If I hang out with guys everything is great. That's because there are no male drama queens out there. Guys aren't bitchy at all. In fact, they don't even know hot to act like a bitch. Why can't girls be like that?
haha, this is a great question. First of all, there are males out there who can be bitches, we call them assholes lol. BUT the bitchassness never comes out of them until a women in their life provokes it and it stays within the relationship therefore their male friends don't tend to see it. YES some girls are bitches. Most of them actually. Including myself at times : ) we are just wired very differently then men. We just want so terribly for you men to understand us and prove to us you care (in a relationship). Lots of women drop hints at men to let them know "I need you to care more" but men don't really get the hint. Therefore we get upset, and when our emotional needs don't get taken care of it results in bitchiness. Its a very simple task to keep a women happy if you get down to it, but it is hard for some guys to grasp the concept of those things. Because some don't know what those things are. And some do. There are a select few out there who know how to treat a woman and keep her happy, and they don't have to deal with her being a bitch. Granted we do birth children and have p.m.s so you can allow a a few days a month to vent : ) that is if you are a great understanding guy. If you are with a women who bitches all the time about EVERYTHING, run, run fast! BUT there are those out there who's niceness out weighs the bitchiness. Hope this helps!
Hmm. Actually, I think your question is quite correct. Women hate being called a bitch or bitchy because it just sounds mean. But, you are asking why we nag, or get upset or angry easily, and it's perfectly ok to ask that :)
I think it's because *most* women want you to know how their feeling and to do something about it. In most experiences, we've learned that just saying "Hey, this is how I feel" just doesn't get the job done, so we *act* on it instead and emphasize it to make you notice more.
We also get pregnant (which will be the worse time to see a woman bitchy...just as my husband haha) and we have that time of the month. During both those periods, our horomones are going crazy and we don't always know why we act the way we do either. Right now, there are times I want to bash my head into a wall I'm so irritated, and I'll be at home alone just doing housework or something and I really have nothing to be irritated about. But my hormones are going INSANE right now. Is that an excuse? No, not really as I always control myself when I did have my time of the month. It's just A LOT more now and it's something different for me. I do cry more than anything though lol :)
a lot of girls are bitchy because they just like to complain and when they bitch about other people they take out there insecurity's but don't realize how they come off... most of the time that is. some girls are just bitches end of story. but guys don't bitch to there friends, they like to keep a chill attitude around there friends to be "cool" but then. they bitch to there girlfriends and girls that are friends about everything and everyone that they hate. believe me. any conversation I've had with any of my guy friends it has to do with some bitching. I'm not saying all guys or all girls are like this. its the person not the gender. if this bothers you so much why don't you look at the girl and tell her "that no one wants to hear it, this isn't the doctor phill show. save it for your girlfriends." I'm pretty sure she will shut up fast. I mean don't say it rude. or in front of everyone but just take her aside and tell her to shut up
Honestly, you obviously haven't dated men. Men can be just as unpleasant as women. Men and women are different, and thus their strengths and weaknesses are different. That said, neither one can lay claim over being more well-adjusted than the other, trust me.
seriously when a guy starts 'bitching' about someone, in another words, DISSING someone, it's worse than when a girl bitches about someone. I hang around guys all the time adn the way they do diss someone and make fun of someone it's just..bad. but the good thing is that they don't diss without a reason like girls do.
It's because they're jealous.. Most girls are bitches because if there's another girl in the room that's not their best friend, they'll do everything possible to make it seem like they're the best one in there.. It's just how we work!
You know you opened up a can of worms with this question, right? Guys can be bitchy too, don't believe me? Come work with my boss for a while, his mood changes more than the sky has clouds. And when he is bitchy, he is way past anything I can produce.
Also, on a side note, women are allowed to be bitchy more often if we are good looking. Men will look past it just to have us on thier arm. It's a learned behavior. Now if you are ugly and bitchy, good luck to you honey.
--- The media doesn't help either. All the reality TV shows, all those women who throw hissy fits and THEN get what they want.
well not every girl is that way. most girls are that way and its because some have drama like their might be another girl trying to teak her man away from her and girls have diffrent hormones that's why we are a lot more emotional some less than others. some like to stay away from drama like me. I sometimes act like if I was one of my guy friends I try to make things as simple as possible. but its gonna be hard to find a girl that doesn't have drama in her life.
Well, I don't know that it is fair to say that ALL girls are bitchy or that ALL guys are a**holes. I am sure that there are good and bad apples on both sides of the spectrum. I personally loathe drama but it tends to find me. Regardless, I am not bitchy or high maintenance. I am a little high strung, focused and organized. No time to be bitchy. I prefer to discuss things in a mature fashion. I hate to argue, fuss and fight. I did so much of it growing up. I also do not like to shop, buy shoes, wear make-up etc. There are many different types of people out there. Broaden your horizons and try not to label people so quickly. Some will surprise you.
I think that this question is a little biased. Yes, SOME girls can be bitchy and irritable, and yes some guys are not. However, I have known plenty of guys that need to STFU and sit down somewhere. There are plenty of male "drama queens" Just because you haven't ran into them doesn't mean they don't exist. Or, you might have ran into them, but don't think of them as such. Basically, you get to choose what kind of people you want to hang out with, if all of the girls you hang out with are bitchy, annoying and whiny, it's because that is who you choose to hang out with. If you haven't ran into any that are contrary to this, it's probably because you don't want to or don't know how to find girls that aren't "bitchy"
I guess we are just different, even though I'm a girl but I can't understand why other girls are bitchy either. Boys and girls will never understand each other fully until we actually turn into the opposite sex, which isn't possible, but if it was well that would answer a lot of questions.
most girls seem bitchy because we over think everything and can easily take something the wrong way. personally I don't think I'm one of those girls but I don't know I've just noticed that guys just don't give a sh*t, and girls are lik always causing some sort of drama.
women may be chemically different, but that doesn't excuse taking out her their bad moods on other people.
the main problem is that women in western cultures (especially America and western Europe) have been brainwashed into believing that their feelings are the center of the universe and that their feelings are _inherently_ important. guys are expected to be stoic, the strong silent types.
when compared to men, women aren't told that they occasionally need to just shut the hell up, quit bitching, suck it up and deal with life. rather, women are raised on a diet of coddling and "talk about your feelings" nonsense. the nonsense is that women aren't given much guidance about how to _constructively_ talk about feelings, and how to know when they'd be better served by shutting up and getting over themselves.
simply because men and women are chemically different. Keep in mind that while you should limit the amount of female drama in your life, it is always fun to be around them, cause bitchy or not, they mix stuff up in our lives and in our heads. This is also the reason that girls chill with girls, and guys chill with guys.