Why do women complain and nag so much?

Question

If I date a woman and all she does is nag and complain, she's getting dumped! I don't want to hear you being negative. I could stay single and masturbate to p*rn if she's gonna whine all time. 

Even when they receive good attention, they still complain. This girl was wearing yoga pants at my college. Guys stared at her because she's attractive. She then gets mad and starts complaining. I wanted to tell her to stfu and take a compliment! If you're attractive, men will look at you. It doesn't mean they will attack you. 

It's like some women wear their miserable personalities on their sleeves. It's annoying. Why do women do this?

christinalong337 · Accepted Answer

why do men shirk responsibility and not do what they're supposed to so much? If i date a guy and all he does is make a mess and never clean it up, or stay unemployed and never try to find a job, or refuse to do what's required of them, he's getting dumped! I don't want to have to ask you to do the same thing over and over again or beg and plead with you just to contribute. I could just get a dildo instead because the only useful thing about a man is his sex organ!

Even when guys are diminishing women to just sex objects that they can cat call because they're in public, they still don't understand that what they consider to be a "compliment" might be offensive to women. STFU and stop giving your opinion to everyone! no one cares if you think they're hot. NO one bases their self worth on your approval or disapproval of their looks so instead of shutting the eff up and "take a compliment" why don't guys just keep their unsolicited thoughts to themselves? If you're a jerk, women will have a problem with it! STFU or stop doing that!

It's like some women wear their misogyny and sexism on their sleeves. It's annoying.

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

Everyone goes through shitty things and situations and need to vent. Guys do this too. It's just basic that if something bad happens you'll want to share it with someone you love and trust. If that's considered too much for you then date a robot that has no emotions. Some people do whine too much, no doubt but it's human to sometimes need to vent and let something out. It doesn't mean the person is miserable. It means they went through a miserable experience and want to talk about it. I get the yoga pants is a bit dramatic but perhaps it's time to date a girl who is more mature and less attention seeking. But don't expect to ever meet someone who never complains. Truth is, we all do.

Slavanna · Accepted Answer

Well, yeah, many do that. Just like many men withhold gestures of affection towards their girls. Some break out of this behavior, some don't. Just let it go man, you're not gonna date the nagging old hags anyway, are you?

TwistedLogic · Accepted Answer

So, you haven't dated yet and you are complaining? Sounds to me like you are nagging. Men and women express themselves differently. Societies (with the help of people like yourself) are desperately and continuously trying to make us appear on opposite sides. That way women will always say "men are jerks and emotionless" and men will always say "women are nagging and too emotional". Grow up and stop generalizing. Some women nag because they were taught that this is the only way they will ever be heard. Similarly, some men write harsh stuff and try to be as offensive as they can (example: your post) because in their heads that is the only way they will be heard.

Keep well. :)

dev765 · Accepted Answer

We are in agreement!

Yellowbone · Answer

That's because females generally aren't taught how to solve their own problems... most girls are taught to wait for someone else, more specifically a man, come & "save" them.

It annoys me too because I'm not like that. One thing I hate about hanging around a lot of other females is that a lot of times they want to whine & cry about things that are easily fixable. They don't want to fix the problem, they just want to complain about it. I was taught to fix my own problems... so yeah.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Nagging is a part of the "entitlement" of western women. Western women, especially White western women, believe they have the "right" to have what they want, when they want it, no matter what. This manifests itself in nagging the living fuck out of men. When a man doesn't immediately give a western white women what she wants she not only nags him but will resort of using terms like "man baby", "man cold", etc. Anything to humiliate and degrade a man in order to get what she wants.

Many white women I have known simply do not care about anything but getting what they want. If her man is seriously sick, injured, exhausted; white women do not care, afterall, they are "entitled" to get what they want immediately.

Creole_Flavor · Answer

Why do men always give a women something to complain about. In my experience of complaining and nagging it has come from unhappiness or being upset by a boyfriend because he did stupid things. Generally I'm not the nagging type unless I get highly irritated

EyeSeaYew · Answer

There's plenty of women who don't nag and complain. Just date one of those kind instead of going after the naggers and then complaining when they nag.

Jerusha · Answer

I think it's part of the women's personality to nag and complain a little. You have to accept that :p

CommieDearest · Answer

I like your idea. Please stay single and masturbate and spare women from being with you.

Claireluvskaren · Answer

Because we can, we know you like seeing our tits and pussy, if we want to vent we will. I don't nag often but when I do my boyfriend deals with and we laugh the next day.

DarkPrince66 · Answer

Let's be fair here, there are a lot of men that complain much more then women.
Now I believe its how women are programmed, thin about it this way men dont complain as much because we tend to be the problem solvers, women know this and they assume that men are able to solve their issues. Also men are known to hide their emotions, we are the tough guys so showing emotions, not an option. Women are taught to express their emotions.

ButterflyXkisses · Answer

Because men don't do what they're told the first time. ;)

yaddayaddayadda02 · Answer

Because women deal on an emotional plane. Since emotions don't really follow logic, they can easily contradict themselves.

Prof_Don · Answer

It TOTALLY depends on what she is nagging about, and why she's nagging. Some men are so emotionally un-intelligent it baffles me.

NatashaAnnJames · Answer

Behind every nagging woman... There is a man not doing what he is suppposed to!

matrix124 · Answer

Some people are pessimistic by nature & just need to complain about something.

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

Complaining is one of my few hobbies. I don't really nag though.

been_waiting · Answer

Why do men do things that are nag-worthy? :P

itlana · Answer

cause thier on thier rag just a joke lol

jacquesvol · Answer

I see more MRAs complaining here.

Calix · Answer

It's in their nature

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