Do you tempt guys to look down your shirt?

[ouch66]

I have been in a few circumstances were a young lady wearing a loose low cut blouse (with no bra) has bent down while facing me, exposing her breast. Was the girl saying lets play?

[OrionRose]

I have this t-shirt that says, "Believe it or not, my short skirt has nothing to do with you." Most guys don't get the meaning of my shirt...

Sometimes a girl is trying to get your attention. If she's attracted to you, sure this might be the case.

Sometimes she's just loving her body because it's hers and she feels good expressing herself with it. Your attention is cool, but mostly irrelevant.

Today I wore a really short skirt. It was hot outside and I like that the skirt makes me feel sexy. Attention from males I'm attracted to is cool, but it's not why I wore the skirt.

Bras suck so maybe she didn't want to wear one. And maybe she bent down to pick something up in front of you because there was something she wanted on the floor and you happened to be there. If she's attracted to you, your presence might have been a factor in her behavior. If she's not attracted to you, she was just getting shit done and feeling comfortable (bra-less) doing it

[coffeprince]

Not always the case, some women are naturally well endowed.. is it an invitation for lets play, absolutely not. In this guys situation what matters most is context.. Is she staring at him, was she reaching for something, or was she locked in eye with the asker, peeking to see if he was peeking.. or was she also trying to cover up and not doing a good enough job. Its all about context context context!

[Charley2310]

In Summer I wear a lot of low cut tops and dresses but I'm always careful around guys. I only ever purposely let a guy look down my top when I'm on Skype with this one guy. When I'm with him I don't really pay attention to how I lean etc so sometimes he sees without me knowing. I don't mind if he sees though and I'm really comfortable with him

[MothMonsterMan]

Absolutely. That's the whole point of loose, low cut blouses in the first place. And I don't care what women say. It's not because "it's hot!". It's first goal, is to show off.

[MothMonsterMan]

Hot was in weather. :) They always say "Well I wear it because it's hot outside!'

[OrionRose]

But remember, women like to "show off" for other women as much as men. Women like to show of for ourselves and our own feeling of feeling good. I know it might be shocking, but her showing off does not necessarily means she cares whether or not you notice her. Or would even be necessarily pleased that you did notice her.

Sometimes we just like to look good because it feels good. It's not all about making thoughts go through your head

[MothMonsterMan]

@OrionRose Either way, you're showing off, so my point stands. That's the whole reason behind low cut blouses, short skirts / shorts, etc. :)

[martyfellow]

Probably showing off, but not an invitation. She 's probably just starting a conversation, and her physical skills are more developed than her conversational skills!

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

Tempting a guy to look down my shirt is like tempting a dog to eat a steak -- it's a guaranteed thing that it will happen if opportunity is made available. So no, I don't tempt guys to do things like that. Tempting a guy would have to a lot more significant of a situation, like making a pass at a guy with a girlfriend, where it's tempting but he knows he should say "no." But looking down my shirt when said shirt is gapping open for him to see? That an guaranteed happing, not a temptation.

[sammy_31]

Nope, I don't tempt guys to look down my shirt. She was perhaps trying to get your attention but lots of girls are that way while on the other hand other girls aren't so promiscuous like the girl you described.

[musicbrain5]

No, because I have nothing to show off. Some girls have really well endowed chests and even when they're not purposefully showing anything off, it happens because their shirts get stretched out.

[Florida_Gator_Girl]

No I dont do this. I am really self conscience about my chest showing off too much. I try to be modest in not wearing really low cut top ever. If I do I wear an undershirt.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I have done this before but I don't do it often

[ouch66]

Are you trying to initiate interaction. An if you are, how would you like the guy to respond?

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