I see too many of these questions on here that define all of the same sex in 1 group as if they all like the exact same things but they don't... and you cannot act who your not so why try to just to be in a relationship with someone?, a relationship shouldn't define who you are you should first become happy with who YOU are, never mind what anyone says... so don't think what other people tell you that all of us are exactly the same... we're not at all we all have different personalities and interests, even if we will have some things in common each of us don't think exactly the same whatsoever. So whoever you really are as a person be honest with yourself, be who you are and the right person will come along who likes a personality like yours... don't listen to girls who say "Guys just love meek girly girls who will look after the kids and stay at home", not true in the slightest... yes... some guys are still very old-fashioned like that but most guys now have moved away from all of that... so just be you.
I always wonder this so I asked a bunch of guys and most prefer quiet girls because outgoing ones get too annoying to them. They think quiet girls are smarter and better to talk to. I feel like I'm neither though so I don't know where I fit in.
I can be only with a shy person if they open up at some point and start being outgoing. I'm an outgoing person myself, I love connecting with all people. So it wouldn't work out with me and a quiet shy person.
I think it is more complicated than just being shy or outgoing. Being shy is kind of cute, but at the same time its problematic if she doesn't show her feelings or participate in conversations or just generally isn't good at making a connection. Outgoing girls are more likely to exhibit other behaviors that guys find attractive like smiling and making eye contact, as well as being flirtatious and just generally having fun.
It's okay to be a bit shy, but you need to get down the basics --smile, talk, make eye contact, laugh -- for men to enjoy interacting with you. If a man can't have a fun time interacting with you on a basic level, then it won't matter how cute you are.
You know. I really usually prefer quiet chicks, but the charisma in outgoing women breaks my own silence. Basically, I like both, depending on the girl, I guess; but, the outgoing women generally break down my walls--whereas quiet chicks walls remain up all the time.
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Meh, depends on prefference. I'm more prone to picking a shy girl, but really, it's more that i want a girl that's ok with spending the Saturday night just the two of us, a girl who can laugh and smile, and who isn't afraid to stand for herself when needed.
So i want a sweet girl who enjoys my company, really.
The problem with shy and introverted girls is: getting to know them. I'm a shy and introverted guy, so I have to take a deep breath and really push out of my comfort zone to talk to a new girl. Being met with rejection where she can't even meet eye contact is frustrating. I know how you feel, girl, I think we'd really connect, but all we've succeeded in doing here is making each other feel awkward.
Talkative and Outgoing, for two reasons:
A) It shows they're happy to engage in longer conversations, and i'm the one who LEADS the conversations by asking majority of the questions (I would remain mysterious in her eyes, and showing im able to listen).
B) Women like to talk in general, the more they talk, they more they can dismiss their bad emotions and they would be thankful for you afterwards.
men want an emotional connection, if she hardly ever talks to him then they can't connect, I think the problem is with shy girls is that they get pushed into the background as the men see the outgoing ones taking interest in them and are besotted with them,
I like quiet, shy when we're around people we don't know to well, but quiet and shy when we're alone at home sucks for me cause I'm a huge joker. Funny thing tho, I'm talkative and outgoing while the girls I go on dates with are usually on the shy side lol.
I actually prefer outgoing and talkative girls because I'm on the quiet laid back side so it just gets awkward if I'm with a quiet shy girl, I'm not shy I'm just laid back. I also prefer them because quiet girls bore me, the girl must be able to start and maintain a conversation.
The prefer the ones who know the difference and know when to be which. It's a tough gig no doubt, but it's not all that hard to do because guys do it too, I know I do. I act like a 4 year old sometimes and mature when I need to, it's about striking that balance.
Well like you said talkative out going girls are more likely to be opinionated and stubborn and shy are more submissive, but not always. I like her to be talkative and outgoing, but not mean or stubborn like she is talkative, but nice and funny. :) I just asked the same exact question as yours except I wanted to know if women liked shy guys more or more confident could you answer it please?
I've thought well and hard about this and I found out I don't mind either except, when the why person finally opens up to me and me only, I feel trusted, adored, and I just want to hold that in my arms forever.
I like Shy girls cause I know they're not sluts and I know they'll be mine and won't be doing anything with other guys.
Depends on the individual but Im usually attracted to shy and quiet girls the most. Outgoing girls can be fun and a bit easier to talk to but my personality doesn't typically mesh well. Im pretty mellow even while drunk.. so yeah shy girls lol
I think the quiet and shy ones become talkative and outgoing once you become close, it's just their outward appearance to the rest of the world that's different.
Quiet and shy girls, no doubt. I like girls who fit my nature, who I can connect with. I associate "quiet and shy" with intelligence, sensibility and politeness.
Talkative and outgoing girls are a complete turn-off for me.
It's not really about that. It's about what kind of person she is. I like girls who understand the world isn't sunshine and sparkles, yet are sweet and humble. Typically for me shy girls have that characteristic so I voted shy girls.
I, myself, cannot decide. They are both good. Quiet and shy is cute (and I love cute), while outgoing and talkative is, I don't know, energetic? I think either is awesome!
I like a girl who speaks at the right time and is a very attentive listener. Half & half with this one.
I'm a reserved person who is somewhat shy, so I would prefer a talkative outgoing person because it will make it easier to me to open up, relax and show off my natural self.
Outgoing talkative. But also somewhat low-key about it. I don't like attention seekers and like humility in a woman.
Talkative outgoing are more fun. Shy women are boring and insecure most of the time.
I'm looking for a girl that compliments my personality.
I'm a little more on the quiet and shy side.
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