Did bad things on Omegle, now Im scared it might 'pop' up online somewhere... What should I do?

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I've been using Omegle for a while and have been pretty sensible when using it. However, a few days ago I was chatting to someone and he started telling me how beautiful I was (etc.) Making me feel really good about myself, since I've always struggled with self-esteem since my teens. He asked me to do some things for him, and being the stupid girl I am... I did as told. I showed him my panties and legs, my cleavage, I licked my lips and sucked my fingers as if it were him. I even pretended to 'play' with myself in the hopes of getting him off. In reality, I wasn't aroused by any of it, and just wanted to get him off. The entire time my face was on cam, and so was his. He showed me his privates very quickly as well on cam but only for a bit. Afterwards I tried contacting him on Skype (he gave me his username) but its been 3-4 days now and he still hasn't responded to any of my messages... Im really worried that he may have recorded me without me knowing it, and plans to upload it online. I've seen many videos of this happening on the internet, and Im worried that it will happen to me too. I haven't been able to sleep or eat because Im scared someone will find out or I will end up online. I regret what I did and dont plan on going on Omegle ever again. I never thought I would do something so stupid, but I have learnt my lesson and now worried that I will have to live with the consequences of that mistake for the rest of my life... I dont know what to do...

Bandit74 · Accepted Answer

Ok ita definitely possible he recorded it but most likely for his own use. Its somewhat possible that he'd upload it but I doubt it. If you weren't nude or topless then there wouldn't be any point to upload it to a p*rn site. And worse case scenario, let's say he does upload it, who the hell is going to watch a video of a fully clothed girl pretending to masturbate when there's countless other videos of completely naked getting actually fucked. So the point is even if he did upload it, which is unlikely imo, nobody would want to watch it anyway. Chances are nobody you know in real life will ever see it.

I wouldn't ask the guy because
He might try to blackmail you and be like: "send me nudes or I'll upload the video. Basically don't give him any ideas, if he hasn't uploaded it and you mention it to him he might decide to upload it.

You're best option is to completely end all contact with the guy, don't message him, remove him from skype. You made a mistake and hopefully you've learned from it but on the bright side you didn't actually reveal anything. Just move on learn from your mistake, and DON'T kill yourself. You're being way too hard on yourself right now. Stop stessing over this, things could be way way worse.

JackKerouac77 · Accepted Answer

I'm sure it was recorded in some form or fashion, but as long as you weren't nude or anything it's not going to be high on search indexes and all that. Yeah, someone may stumble across it eventually, but it's not going to be on p*rn sites or anything.

Relatively tame compared to most mistakes people make with that stuff. Be more careful next time!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've had this same thing happen to me, please don't worry about it. I had the same problem, I got so worked up about it, and was so scared. I doubt he recorded you, and if he did, then you shouldn't freak out, there's so many videos on the internet, and so many girls who have been recorded, so even if you were, I don't think anyone would see it but him. I think the best thing to do is calm down, and not worry about it, it's not everyone in the world is gonna see it, he's probably the only who will see it anyway. And if you find it on the internet, than contact help, or if you want you can even get the police involved. But for now, just forget about it, unless there's anything suspicious, you'll be fine. And if he doesn't respond to your messages, than just forget about him and move on.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

this is not good at all

It was careless of you to show your face, and if you wanted to get him off close out of the window and put something over your webcam just in case it was still on. And you may be very pretty but sometimes people use that to get you to do things you may not want to do because they know you have a low self esteem even without you telling that person. Yeah he probably did save the video recording or pictures he may show some of his friends or keep it to himself. But after you sent that to him he can do whatever he wants with it, because you basically gave him permission to do whatever he wants with them. If I were you I would stay off Omegle for sometime, try and limit communication with him and he may just forget about it.

Kyndra · Accepted Answer

With  p*rn  being so easily accessible, and girls voluntarily selling their images online, I doubt anyone would bother to upload what he got from a webcam. And even if they do, it's long gone! The internet is full of nudity, new videos are uploaded in like every 15 minutes.

ilovesexyfeet · Answer

I doubt he recorded it but leave it don't ask him he could lie and blackmail u in to doing it again and then record it. Learn a lesson from it u have had a luck escape but u are not the first and won't be the last to do such a silly thing like this. Don't let it eat u up and he's probably just used u for it and already be watching his next victim. Its highly unlikely that somebody would recognize u or that somebody watching it would actually know u but like I said he won't have recorded it anyway so move on and forget about it.

flingflame · Answer

It's certainly possible to be recorded. That's a danger of playing online. You should certainly learn from this experience and understand to not do it again. However, there's not much you can do at this point.

More importantly, you need to seek help. The risk of this happening is scary, for sure. It's NOT worth killing yourself for. You'll get past this, but you need to find someone to talk to about this. If you can find nobody else, please call the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.

Please do not do anything rash.

Anonymous · Answer

It's possible you were recorded. But it's not very likely if you were only showing your face and weren't showing your boobs or puss.

Just take it as a lesson well learned and next time don't be so stupid on the internet.

stupidgirlllll123 · Answer

I was recorded too. It's a really bad feeling, I know how you feel. But, wherever the video goes, is where it goes. Since your not underage, I guess you can either call the cops. You need to cut if off, and call the cops, show him that your the bigger person, and you won't be tempted by his sweet nothings. Stay strong girlie<3

Anonymous · Answer

I mean what are you going to do now that you've already done it? I doubt it will be everywhere online if he recorded it. There is nothing to worry about, stressing out will do absolutely nothing for you. So much  p*rn  gets uploaded to the internet, if it has been 3-4 days it's already buried.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

I told you about how serious this is in one of your other post  you know people on Skype can take control of your computer through spyware, virus you need to be careful.

Shadow55151 · Answer

Before I even say anything I have to ask...

Why the hell did you do this?

I recommend you stop checking YouTube and these sites. Not seeing the video is only worrying you more, so simply stop checking and move on with your life.

Anonymous · Answer

omegle is breeding place for pedophiles i don't see why a
sting operation hasn't been on there to stop the predators
that site i really doubt you will ever meet a decent person on
there yes he could have made a video of you when will you
girls realize the risk your taking and start using some common
sense the guy can get your IP number from Skype trace
you from your Skype name it's not hard to do.

summiter · Answer

It is possible but you have to stop worrying because there is nothing you can do about it. Next time don't show your face, just your body while camming

bDizzie · Answer

Of course it's been recorded, but honestly who cares? Be proud of your body! Besides, there's so much  p*rn  out there that nobody's looking at non-nude videos.

jakemagal · Answer

you know honey everyone commits mistakes but be who you are and let me tell you this that man who is with you in Omegle is gross and if he recorded it he must think 7 times or more than that because you will share the consequences and for that man I pity him. and for you think twice if you ever want to go to that site ok. but live your life normal and please next time don't believe in some stranger that you never meet physically.

BeingKreatV · Answer

I understand what it feels like to being low on self esteem... and I believe that was your mistake and not what you did at the site... I am pretty sure he wouldn't upload it as you were fully clothed...
Anyways you're a beautiful girl and not a slutty one as you regret doing what you did so much... Be proud of yourself girl... and smile :-)

LastGirlScout · Answer

I did waaaaaay worse! There's nothing you can do but learn from your experience and forget about it.

Jonny_ · Answer

I'd not worry about it, there's no point in worrying.

DoriantheArtisan · Answer

you know on the flip side you could make money off "panty shows". just saying... if it comes out make the best of it.

Ghosty · Answer

Nah, to much work for a clip of a girl in a low cut top. Don't freak yourself out, he didn't record it.

rUinSAYAN · Answer

are you pretty? hahaha oh well don't answer it. I'm just being a douche

Anonymous · Answer

Don't sweat it. It almost certainly won't end up anywhere and even if it does, it's even less likely anyone you know (including you) will ever see it.

alexb123123 · Answer

he was probably just exited and i doubt he saved them.. if he did they were probably for his own use!

Anonymous · Answer

I seriously doubt it.

Did bad things on Omegle, now Im scared it might 'pop' up online somewhere... What should I do?

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